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March 2nd, 2013, 05:29 AM
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when your pregnancy is over? I know we are all looking forward to giving birth to our babies but will you be sad at all that it's over. What will you miss the most? For me I'll be sad....even though my pregnancy hasn't been the most enjoyable. This is most definitely my last baby so just knowing that I'll never experience pregnancy again in my lifetime makes me a little sad. I'll miss feeling baby move the most.
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March 2nd, 2013, 05:44 AM
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This is likely our last too. I'm not going to say for certain but probably and yes that makes me very sad. I do look forward to meeting this little one and I can't wait for him to be in my arms but I will very much miss him moving inside me and my kids feeling him, talking to him, rubbing my belly
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March 2nd, 2013, 05:49 AM
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I will be sad. I love being so connected to her. I love feeling her move. I know that I'll get to see her and everything but it will definitely be different. DH is still very jealous that I get to feel her so much.
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March 2nd, 2013, 05:58 AM
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NO!!!!! NO NO NO!!!! I can't wait to have this little one out and never have a child in there again! I know that probably sounds horrible, but it's honest. I will miss being able to eat what I want and not worry about my weight, lol. Selfish, maybe. Sorry, just being honest again, lol!
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March 2nd, 2013, 06:20 AM
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I don't think I'll be particularly sad. This pregnancy is likely my last and it hasn't been horrible or anything, but the movement gets on my nerves and I'm not a big fan of the aches and pains and restrictions and waddling and weird wardrove. I think I'll be quite pleased to just get back to being myself.

I WILL miss the lack of periods- god, that's the best thing about being pregnant and if it didn't mean pushing out a kid every 9 months, I'd totally stay pregnant all the time just to avoid AF!
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March 2nd, 2013, 06:22 AM
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Pregnancy has caused me a lot of anxiety this time, especially since baby doesn't move much. I know there will be stress with having an infant at home again, but I can not wait to see him breathing and moving. I will not miss this big belly either and I hate getting out of breath just from walking up the stairs!! I'm ready for it to be over!!
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March 2nd, 2013, 06:27 AM
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I will miss getting away with things just because I am pregnant. Everyone at work offers me extra sweets and they are all telling me to go home early or work from home so that I don't stress myself out too much. It is nice.
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March 2nd, 2013, 07:08 AM
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I will most definitely be sad. And I am NOT looking forward to giving birth. The labor process makes me very anxious. But I love, love, love being pregnant. I always have. And this time has made me realize that my last pregnancy was rougher than I realized on me because this one has been so super easy. The minor aches and pains don't concern me. I love feeling baby, and I don't mind my belly. I doubt we will have more, and so that makes me sad as well. I honestly feel BETTER when I am pregnant than I usually do non-pregnant.
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March 2nd, 2013, 07:16 AM
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Umm.. I might start missing pregnancy in about 2 years. In which case, I might just get pregnant again. I need that time to forget all of the discomforts.
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March 2nd, 2013, 07:22 AM
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they are all telling me to go home early or work from home so that I don't stress myself out too much. It is nice.
Lucky you!! That is my fantasy!!
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March 2nd, 2013, 07:26 AM
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only sad parts for me are the movements and the ultrasounds.. i love those! other than that not really... and I'll be pregnant again sometime not too soon though! not sure if my body likes being prego LOL
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March 2nd, 2013, 08:19 AM
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just knowing that I'll never experience pregnancy again in my lifetime makes me a little sad. I'll miss feeling baby move the most.
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March 2nd, 2013, 08:23 AM
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when your pregnancy is over? I know we are all looking forward to giving birth to our babies but will you be sad at all that it's over. What will you miss the most? For me I'll be sad....even though my pregnancy hasn't been the most enjoyable. This is most definitely my last baby so just knowing that I'll never experience pregnancy again in my lifetime makes me a little sad. I'll miss feeling baby move the most.
Yes. No. Maybe So. Aww, hell, I don't know.

Heh.

Will be so glad to have this baby but it is my last and I will miss it moving a bit.
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March 2nd, 2013, 08:44 AM
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Absolutely. I'm loving being pregnant! Obviously I am sometimes uncomfortable and some of his movements are quite painful but I wouldn't give this up for anything. I love my body while pregnant and so does DH. I feel more confident about myself the past few months and while I can't wait to have my baby, I also can't wait to e able to experience pregnancy again.
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March 2nd, 2013, 09:06 AM
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I'm going to ditto the NO!!!! I thought I was done last time and this little one sneaked in there!!!! I was so bitter and angry the first few months I couldn't even look at a baby without feeling mad lol.. I'm excited now, don't get me wrong but I NEVER want to go through this again!
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March 2nd, 2013, 09:23 AM
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I'm sure I'll get moods where I do.... But I am going to be glad to be more active with my daughter. I hate dealing with the constant cramping and bh. I want my body back.
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March 2nd, 2013, 10:02 AM
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yes, i will be very sad, this will be my last.

I am the most healthy and feel great when I am pregnant, I would be pregnant all the time if I had a choice.
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March 2nd, 2013, 11:17 AM
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Yes and no. I will be sad because this is my last for sure. This was our surprise bonus baby and knowing how hard its been being pregnant in mid 40s I know I won't be doing it again as I get even closer to 50. I enjoy feeling the bond of having a baby inside and feeling/watching the moving and knowing that we created a whole new person. I won't miss the fact that I am not a good pregnant person and I am a worrywart. I had been resigned that I was done after my first son was born so being pregnant again was totally unplanned but I couldn't be happier!
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March 2nd, 2013, 01:54 PM
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Yes and no. I will never forget the first time I stood up after I had Brooklyn. I just looked down & thought, "Now I'm empty. It's just me." Hard to describe, but it definately was a feeling I didn't expect. We were TTC w/ MA this time & are definately planning to be done after this one, so there is probably going to be some sadness, but at the same time, I'll just be proud to have made it through two pregnancies with HG, and to have two amazing kids. And I have to admit, I really want a breast reduction, so I will be another step closer to that!
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March 2nd, 2013, 02:14 PM
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I don't think that I will be sad that pregnancy is over. I am , admittedly, bad at being pregnant. I feel this way because I am having problems with my blood sugar and now my pressure, and I was SOOO MUCH MORE sick than I could have ever imagined during T1 that it messed wth me a bit mentally. I see so many women who are sooo much better at this pregnancy thing than I am.

I say this to DH and he gets mad at me because he said that even with my blood sugar problems I have given up everything that I love to take care of the baby correctly and while other women can indulge in their cravings and eat comfort foods etc, I can't even do that to gain a measure of comfort and I don't cheat. So in that way he feels like I am doing so great. I can agree with that but I still feel that I stink at being pregnant especially when my body isn't cooperating.

I think I will be sad to not have the me and JUST baby time. I talk to him so much. When we are in the shower I sing to him and stuff and he is all mine right now, just me and him traveling around and going to doctors visits and it's a unique closeness that I won't ever feel again with him when he is born. Nearing the end of pregnancy also forces me to realize how fast time really slips by... and it will do the same once he arrives. So this makes me ok with holding onto anytime that I have with him and not rushing my days.
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