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December 9th, 2013, 06:55 AM
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I don't know about you ladies but lately I've been a lot more moodier and have absolutely zero sex drive. At first I was blaming the hormones whenever my cycle would make a full rotation again but lately, I've found myself moody most of the time. My poor SO is doing nothing wrong but I seem to snap or constantly find something to get mad at him for. Most times, I bite my tongue though or just try to forget about it because I know it's me that's the problem, not him.

My sex drive has also dropped completely. The past three months I've been avoiding contact with my SO other than a kiss here or there when he leaves for work. I can't seem to shake this either. My SO brought it up and asked if something was the matter and all I could say was, "I don't know".

Any of you ladies experience this and know how to get out of it?
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December 9th, 2013, 09:44 AM
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Im really sorrry that you are going through that! I am not feeling the same way but have heard of a friend that did kind of like that. She went to the ob and was put on anti depressants for I think less than a year and then was fine.

I would consider talking to your OB about it and Im sure she/he would have suggestions, I say that just because you said you can 'shake' it and its bothering you.

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December 9th, 2013, 12:50 PM
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I've had a low sex drive these past few months too. I'm not moody, just tired. Also, the crib in our bedroom is not helping (it's a one bedroom apartment so it's the only option for now). I figure it'll get better once Marcos is sleeping nights, and also once he has his own bedroom when we move in the Spring.
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December 9th, 2013, 08:20 PM
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Well what gets you in the mood? Sometimes it doesn't help when men feel like not really giving you some foreplay before. What I mean is giving you a nice back rub, trying to connect you like staring into your eye (all are examples) but I know after a baby the wham bam thank you ma'am is out the door. We have to get worked up.
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December 10th, 2013, 03:36 AM
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Thanks Ladies. My SO is good at the foreplay part, it's just that I'm usually not in a very good mood for him to get close enough to try. Ugh. I really do hope this ends soon or I'm going to have to tell my doctor about it. Also, I love how you said, "wham bam thank you ma'am" is out the door icymommy. That did make me crack a smile.
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December 11th, 2013, 07:50 AM
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Hugs!! I can tell you I'm not in the mood very often these days either...let's be honest...I'm tired!! By the time I finally get to bed most nights it's super late and I'm exhausted. I agree with the suggestion of talking to your dr too if it's really bugging you.
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