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December 19th, 2013, 02:10 PM
JulieMc's Avatar Loving my babies. :)
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Has anyone tried it yet, and if so, how long after birth? Is anyone thinking about it? How long are you planning to wait? How long were you told to wait? Or, is it the furthest thing from your mind at this time?


I'm thinking about it!! DH cut me off from 32 weeks on because he was afraid of it inducing labor, so I'm more than anxious. The bleeding has tapered off and gone away. Though I'm slightly nervous it could come back. :/ With my other two kids bleeding lasted 8 weeks and 6 weeks...way too long! I feel lucky its only been like 2 weeks with the twins......I guess it must be because I had a csection. It was much lighter from day 1 than it was with my other two. Officially I was told to wait 6 weeks though....the chances of me getting pregnant again are slim to none though, nursing two kids. I'm just worried it might hurt or something bad would happen. Any advice?

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December 19th, 2013, 02:41 PM
redbirds's Avatar Blessed Again!
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Nope It's on the no-no list for 6 weeks until after my check up. I'm not in the mood, anyway We made sure to get some in before baby came, so he's not hurting too bad
Gwynne, celebrating the newest of our four precious miracles

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December 19th, 2013, 02:56 PM
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I feel almost 100% back to my old self down below and have very light bleeding but not at all ready for that. I will wait until after my 6 week exam and most likely awhile after that, too. Really not in the mood at all.

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December 19th, 2013, 02:57 PM
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We did it when Koby was 12 days old! I had a c section so I wasn't injured down there, and my DH is hot! I couldn't help it. We've done it a few times since, not every day or anything like that! My bleeding has also been very minimal and we are using condoms.

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December 19th, 2013, 04:19 PM
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If I had a c section I totally would lol but I usually wait 6 weeks to do it. I don't want to damage my busted up vag lol
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December 19th, 2013, 04:29 PM
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we're waiting for stitches to fall out before we give it a try.
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December 19th, 2013, 05:09 PM
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I am ready too! DH isn't though it doesn't appear. I think he is looking at my as a mommy now instead of his hot horn dog wife. Lol. I am have to pull out the lingerie to remind him. It has been 4 weeks tomorrow since twins were born. My vag feels fine but I have a mild case of hemmroids. Worried a little play time will hurt my booty.
Me (43) DH(33) 12 years together - ttc our first together-I have 14yr old DS
Cycles 1-6 = BFN
Cycle 7 SA results abnormal morphology 2%, 50 mg clomid = BFN
Cycle 8 sonogram normal 50 mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 9 SA results abnormal morphology and motility. Count 200 mill, 100mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 10 natural = BFN
Cycle 11 hsg tubes clear, natural + trigger+IUI = BFN
Cycle 12 repronex + trigger + 2 IUI = BFN
Cycle 13 natural ovaries to stimulated for more meds = BFN
Cycle 14-22 natural cycle with Acupuncture and planning ivf/icsi/DE = ALL BFN
Cycle 23 Clomid 50 mg & Progesterone = BFN
Cycle 24 Natural = BFN
Cycle 25 BCP, SA result 7% morphology = BFN
Cycle 26 BCP and Lupron preparing for IVF
Cycle 27 IVF Acupuncture, DE Retrieval April 7, Transfer April 12 =
7 eggs retrieved, 3 fertilized, 2 transferred - zero snow babies
BETA # 1 16DPO or 11dp5dt = 569
BETA # 2 19 DPO or 14dp5dt = 1078
BETA # 3 22DPO or 17dp5dt = 2414 TWINS!
BETA # 4 30DPO or 25dp5dt = 12,685 6weeks 3days 2 heartbeats! 114 & 116
Clayton and Colton Born @ 34 weeks 11/22/13
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December 19th, 2013, 05:14 PM
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My back is still broken so heeeeeeeck no.
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December 19th, 2013, 06:31 PM
JulieMc's Avatar Loving my babies. :)
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My goofy husband asked about it before the babies were even a week old. I think I'm going to go for it. He'll be pleased to know I'm ready. My incision doesn't even hurt and is healed up well (the dermabond is 98% gone/fallen off), and my insides all feel normal.

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December 19th, 2013, 06:33 PM
Brittanie's Avatar just me
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I'm sure my nurses would be upset at me.....
Oriyan likes this.
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December 19th, 2013, 06:59 PM
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I'm on pelvic rest for six weeks and still fairly sore downstairs plus hemorrhoids. Yay! Mentally and hormonal my I'm ready, but physically no way. And I definitely do not want to get pregnant right away! I'm going to call at 4 weeks to start birth control pills.
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December 19th, 2013, 07:09 PM
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Haven't yet but I want to but Dh keeps saying we have to wait the full 6 weeks....I am still bleeding a tad though which makes me angry. We didn't from 30-35weeks then had it 1x that 35th week....and nothing after...so its been a while..

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December 19th, 2013, 10:03 PM
swade66's Avatar My friends call me HIRB.
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I am ready but I don't think my body is. I feel good but it has been 10 days so I think my stitches would still be an issue. I haven't looked.

We haven't done it since like 36 weeks so already it has been over a month. It is driving me nuts!

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December 20th, 2013, 12:45 AM
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Uh for those who know my story.. I'm keeping this monster caged. Not hard when he's around anyways.
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December 20th, 2013, 01:21 AM
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We already have. Had some minimal sutures and was told to abstain for 2- 2.5 weeks, which is what we did. It was fine- no pain.
He's here!
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December 3, 2013 at 433 pm
7 lbs 6 oz, 21 inches
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