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January 1st, 2014, 12:00 PM
ChicaChels's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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We haven't but I totally have been wanting to. The nurse told Sam no sex for 6w so he's being a stickler. I didn't even tear....c'mon buddy lets man up lol
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Maverick Jude
December 9, 2013
5:20PM 8lb3oz 20.5"
Hospital water birth
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January 1st, 2014, 12:08 PM
Brittanie's Avatar just me
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Only two weeks pp here...still bleeding. Nope! lol
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January 1st, 2014, 12:30 PM
kara74's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Nope. DH is also a stickler for waiting the 6 weeks. In his culture/religion dtd is very much frowned upon before 40 days pp.

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January 1st, 2014, 12:35 PM
CherryLimeade's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Last time we didn't even make it 3 weeks. I was on antibiotics so I was like wth, let's do it! I could totally do it now cause my tear is completely healed, but I'm afraid of infection. Already had a d*mn placenta infection... DH can barely control himself though, so I don't think we will make 6 weeks.

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January 1st, 2014, 12:40 PM
HorseGal's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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No plans to here. I'm a horn dog but SO and I are on the rocks and I have no urge to do it anytime in the near future.
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January 1st, 2014, 12:41 PM
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Nope, I am only 2 weeks pp too. Still bleeding and will for awhile yet. My vag is totally fine , I didn't tear or anything. However, even if I wasn't bleeding, I wouldn't. I am terrified of pregnancy! I have to figure something permanent. I can not imagine EVER being preggers again.....
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January 1st, 2014, 12:46 PM
monkeymama2's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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No--DH has tried but I'm not feeling it. Still light discharge, and I need more consistent sleep. Right now when we go to bed, I'm lucky if I get an hr before I'm feeding dash again.
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January 1st, 2014, 01:29 PM
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I want to, but I'm only 3 1/2 weeks PP. My doctor said pelvic rest for 6 weeks so that's what I'm going to do. Plus I am terrified of getting pregnant again. Irish triplets?! I would die!
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January 1st, 2014, 01:44 PM
anybodyinthere's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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No. 2.5 wks pp and obviously no damage to the downstairs due to my dumb c section :/.

But I'm still bleeding and still feeling some pain from the surgery so, no. We are wanting to though. I'll wait 4 more weeks.

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January 1st, 2014, 02:54 PM
Oriyan's Avatar Platinum Superdupermommy
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dtd...dtd.... whats that again? Its been so long....
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January 1st, 2014, 03:01 PM
hugssandi's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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1 week pp, desire definitely there, but we will wait.
More people fail from a lack of encouragement than anything else!~ Mrs. James Hendry

I'm a Mary in a world of Marthas~Carol Barnier

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January 1st, 2014, 03:15 PM
redbirds's Avatar Blessed Again!
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nope. STILL bleeding, lightly. This is the longest EVER for me! 4 weeks tomorrow!! AND... I'm tired. TIRED. No desire at all. Poor dude. I just blame the 6 week notice for now
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January 1st, 2014, 03:18 PM
Lily81972's Avatar Regular
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I totally did before two weeks pp, I had a good recovery even after the csection. I had to go to doctor to have incision checked at 10 days and I was given depo shot same day so I am safe lol plus I am pumping. I hope all is good when I get checked on jan 7th I feel fine and no bleeding.
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January 1st, 2014, 03:20 PM
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Nope and no plans either
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January 1st, 2014, 03:26 PM
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Yes at 3 weeks
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January 1st, 2014, 05:05 PM
swade66's Avatar My friends call me HIRB.
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No...but I would.

It's been 3 weeks...I am still bleeding just lightly. We didn't DTD for 3 or so weeks before she was born so it feels like it has been FOREVER.

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January 1st, 2014, 05:21 PM
Betts's Avatar First Time Mommy
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Nope. Still having some light bleeding and some pain from the c section. Also my doctor told me I wasn't allowed to before my next appointment. I'm fine with that.

Thanks Jaidynsmum for my beautiful siggy!

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January 1st, 2014, 06:21 PM
kayakr's Avatar Persuaded by POAS’ers
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I wish! I think DH is still traumatized watching child birth. I even bought a few sex outfits for myself and wrapped them for him for christmas. Well now that has been a week ago and he still hasn't asked me to put one on. crossing my fingers he will soon.
Me (43) DH(33) 12 years together - ttc our first together-I have 14yr old DS
Cycles 1-6 = BFN
Cycle 7 SA results abnormal morphology 2%, 50 mg clomid = BFN
Cycle 8 sonogram normal 50 mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 9 SA results abnormal morphology and motility. Count 200 mill, 100mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 10 natural = BFN
Cycle 11 hsg tubes clear, natural + trigger+IUI = BFN
Cycle 12 repronex + trigger + 2 IUI = BFN
Cycle 13 natural ovaries to stimulated for more meds = BFN
Cycle 14-22 natural cycle with Acupuncture and planning ivf/icsi/DE = ALL BFN
Cycle 23 Clomid 50 mg & Progesterone = BFN
Cycle 24 Natural = BFN
Cycle 25 BCP, SA result 7% morphology = BFN
Cycle 26 BCP and Lupron preparing for IVF
Cycle 27 IVF Acupuncture, DE Retrieval April 7, Transfer April 12 =
7 eggs retrieved, 3 fertilized, 2 transferred - zero snow babies
BETA # 1 16DPO or 11dp5dt = 569
BETA # 2 19 DPO or 14dp5dt = 1078
BETA # 3 22DPO or 17dp5dt = 2414 TWINS!
BETA # 4 30DPO or 25dp5dt = 12,685 6weeks 3days 2 heartbeats! 114 & 116
Clayton and Colton Born @ 34 weeks 11/22/13
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January 1st, 2014, 07:40 PM
monkeymama2's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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^^ lol! What are "sex outfits"??
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January 2nd, 2014, 12:38 AM
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Yep we have, a few days after 2 weeks pp. We normally wait 4, but I was feeling great and bleeding had stopped.
He's here!
Cody Ryan
December 3, 2013 at 433 pm
7 lbs 6 oz, 21 inches
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