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December 11th, 2005, 10:46 AM
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It was suggested that I start a thread that we could take the time to memorialize our beloved angel babies. I researched on the internet as to how to do this and figured that everyone should do as they wish. Memorialize and remember your sweet angel by...

1) writing a poem and posting it in this thread
2) sharing pictures/ultrasounds of your angel
3) letters written to your baby
4) placing their name and date your angel went to Heaven
5) any other way you have memorialized your sweet lovely baby.

I believe that this is part of the healing process. It will also allow us to "show" our love for our little ones!

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December 11th, 2005, 11:10 AM
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Astrid, that poem made me cry. And I think this is a lovely idea.

Here's what my friend from work had given me when she came to the hospital to see me:

Don't think of him as gone away, his journey has just begun.
Life holds so many things, earth is only one.
Just think of him as resting from the sorrow and the tears
in a place of warmth and comfort,
where there are no days or years.
Think of how he must be wishing that we could know today
How nothing but our sadness can really pass away.
And think of him as living in the hearts of those he touched
For nothing loved is ever lost
And he was loved so much!

This really comforts me, because I know that my son was truely loved by many people even though he had yet to take a breath of air.

and here's a pic of his foot prints and an angel someone sent me, I don't have any good u/s pics of him on the computer.
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The time we had with you was brief,
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And sing your lullaby.

Someday again, we'll be with you,
To cherish all those things,
Until that day it helps to know,
You're safe in angels wings.





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December 11th, 2005, 11:16 AM
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Here's a poem I wrote awhile back...I've never shared it with anyone, not even ex b/f but I feel the desire to share now. It's more about the loss of everything I had, not just the babies, but it's significant nonetheless.

We shared a bed
A night of passionate love
We created a baby
A miracle from above.

Our worst fear came true
A child was not to be
I cried in your arms
You did your best to comfort me

I thought another baby could cure my pain
God gave us two
New lives,new beginnings,
Sunshine at last peeking through my rain.

It happened again
One by one they past
Just when I thought there was not pain
Greater than the last.

My life...turned upside down
I was a shell of a being
Tears, anger, heartache
Was all that was found.

You my love tried your very best
I did not appreciate your efoorts
Now you're gone
I'm left to pick up the rest.

My dreams are not only of our babies
but you in my life
I desire our future family,
to be your loving wife.

We had no control over them
Being taken from us
But we can honor their lives
Remaining together is a must.

I love you more than words can say
You've inhabited my heart, my soul,
My womb...
Forever connected we'll remain.

So Emily Dickinson I am not but it's from the heart and written during a very poinet period of my life...
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December 15th, 2005, 03:02 PM
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All of your peoms brought me tears. Here is one I found on another website:

Dearest Mommy,
When you wonder the meaning of life and love
Know that I am with you
Close your eyes and feel me kissing you
In the gentle breeze across your cheek
When you begin to doubt that you shall ever see me again
Quiet your mind and hear me
I am in the whisper of the heavens
Speaking of your love
When you lose your identity
When you question who you are
Where you are going
Open your heart and see me
I am the twinkle in the stars
Smiling down upon you
Lighting the path for your journey
When you awaken each morning
Not remembering your dreams
But feeling content and serene
Know that I was with you
Filling your night with thoughts of me
When you linger in the remnant pain
Wholeness seeming so unfamiliar
Think of me and know that I am with you
Touching you through the shared tears of a gentle friend
Easing the pain
As the sunrise illuminates the desert sky
In that breathtaking glory, awaken your spirit
Think of our time together, all too brief, but ever brilliant
When you were certain of your destiny
Know that God created that moment in time, just for us.
Dearest Mommy, I am with you always
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December 19th, 2005, 04:35 AM
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Hi there -

I was wondering what people have done (if anything) to remember your angel.




This was done almost 18 months ago now (right before I got pregnant with Benjamin) it is on my right leg above my ankle.




Her shelf










Her final resting place



Her stillbirth certificate
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December 19th, 2005, 06:19 PM
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I made this collage which is just a few pictures taken while we were pregnant. Anyone can see how happy we were and how sad we are that we no longer have Onesie to look forward to meeting! Onesie is the nickname my DH gave our baby since we didn't know whether it was a girl or boy.

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Also, this was a poem written for me by a friend. Everytime I wonder why, I read it and pray that Onesie is by God's side, looking over us.

Little Angel and Lovely Mommy

Little Angel of heaven I am your mom
I have been waiting so I can hold your hand
Your heart beat was like traveling horses
running in a field of sand
Your little body was growing inside me
reminding me and telling me that we are family now.
Why did you leave before I got to see your smile.
I pictured all our days together what do I do now.
what are his reasons did I do something wrong somehow.
Why has God taken you so early in your life
Little Angel of heaven I feel like a part of me is gone
please give me a sign that will help me move on.


Dear lovely Mommy I am your Little Angel
holding your hand now.
place your hand over your heart and feel it
I am there our heat beating together as one.
My body is so strong now and bathed
with the spirt of God.
I will always be your family
until the end of time I give you my word.
Dear lovely Mommy I am sorry I had to leave so soon
but there are plans for me here in heaven and you
will be so proud of me when your time comes to.
Picture the brightest light when you close your
eyes at night you will see a glimps of me
smiling as I watch over you tonight.
You will go on Dear lovely Mommy I want you to
stay strong. Time will pass like a summer storm.
Dear lovely Mommy you did nothing wrong this
is just the way it has to be you will someday understand
I am still hear and never to be gone
listen for my laughter in a glorious song.
You will meet me some beautiful day at the pearly gates
of heaven dont you cry because I did not die.
Thank you Mommy for giving me life
I am so happy here in heaven. Jesus is a glorious sight.
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January 5th, 2006, 04:28 PM
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<div align="center">My Angels Twins
Christian&Anastacia
June 17,2005

My Dear Angels Twins I was glad to be Pregnant.
I was happy when I saw your little forms on the ultrasound screen She told me it was a boy and girl.
I was overjoy but shock at know I would have not one but two new babies to hold in my arms.
Your Big Sister and Brother were so happy when mommy told them they would have a baby brother and sister to play with soon
I when to all my appts and listen to your heartbeats.
I planned and got ready for the day for when I would bring you home .
But two week before the Doctor want you here My little twins were born.
But I was sad to hear from my nurse that you had join the angels when I was sleeping.
Now I long to hold my twins Angels in my arms But I know you watch over your Brother and Sister and Mommy from heaven. Stacey C</div>
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February 20th, 2006, 04:38 PM
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Dear Angel:

I don't know where to begin, my dear angel. You were with me for such a short time, but it was the happiest I have ever been. You made my heart skip a beat, and every morning I woke up with my hand on my tummy, thinking of you growing. I wish I could have felt your movements, see my belly grow, listen to your heartbeat, find out if you were a boy or girl, and most of all...to hold you. I feel like I've failed you. What did God want of you? Is there something more important that you're needing to do? I wish I could have seen you grow up. It kills me that your not with me anymore. That day I saw you on the monitor, I cried so hard. You were so tiny, just a speck. I had no idea you hadn't been with me for 3 weeks, it was such a shock. I had no symptoms of a miscarriage. None at all.

I can't wait for the day I get to see your sweet face, to hold you, to tell you I love you. Every day I think of you. I gaze up at the stars and wonder if your with your great grandma. Your my very own angel, and I'll always love you. February 9th is now a day engraved into my heart and soul. You will be remembered forever.

Love,
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February 20th, 2006, 06:01 PM
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Also, this was a poem written for me by a friend. Everytime I wonder why, I read it and pray that Onesie is by God's side, looking over us.

Little Angel and Lovely Mommy>>

Astrid, I loved this poem so much I stuck it in my myspace page....The first time I read it I thought it was author unknown, but now that I read it again and realized it was your friend I'd like to credit her or take it out...is there a name I can put with it? If not I will take it out Thanks!
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February 22nd, 2006, 08:31 AM
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Hi Ladies, I used to post on the board a bit but left for awhile. Anyway, here are some things for our little girl natalie. Her pictures are on www.babiesonline.com/babies/b/babyh3


here is her shelves


her marker


my tattoo for her
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February 27th, 2006, 01:31 AM
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Hi everyone. I have 4 tiny angels in heaven. 2 are a set of twins. i just wanted to stop in and write them a little letter.



To my tiny angels:

You were in my body for a very short time, but I want you to know that not a day goes by when we don't think about you. I know one day we will all be reunited. I love you dearly and know that you are happy, peaceful, and loved. you will forever remain in my heart and mind. one day i will finally be able to love, kiss and hold you my children. i love you with all of my heart and soul. The joy you brought to me for that short time were some of the greatest memories I'll forever have. The joy your daddy had when we found out you were with us, the laughs and hugs we had are in your honor. all of you could fit in the palms of my hands, yet the love i have for you would over flow in this universe. i love you forever, and you will be big brothers and sisters soon. i know God and his angels are taking care of you, and loving you, and i know that you are aware of my existance. so that is what matters. One day we will be united. Until then, i'll forever send you my thoughts and my love, as I know you are looking down on your sister as she sleeps, and your brother as he kicks me in the same home that you shared not so long ago. I love you all forever and always

love always,

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March 28th, 2006, 07:46 PM
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Angel On Loan

God gave me an angel to carry and love,
If only for a moment's time;
I loved, nurtured and cared for her soul,
But it wasn't in His design.

My angel wasn't ready to join this earth,
To be born into the world's ways;
So she was taken to heaven to wait some more,
And now I must pass the days.

It's often hard to look past my pain,
And see the greater scheme;
When all I want to do is hold,
That child of my broken heart's dream.

I know someday when the time is right,
I'll be given my angel again;
She'll be born so healthy and full of life,
With fingers and toes of ten.

She'll have vibrant eyes and cheeks of rose,
And a cry of heaven's sweet song;
I'll cherish each moment I have with her,
No matter how brief or how long.

I'll thank the Lord for blessing my life,
And I'll savour the gift He's sent;
For I know each child is truly His own,
And my angel is one that He's lent.

©Kari Hentzelt, 1999

To My Little One Who Was Lost Due To Ectopic, But God Gave Me The Ability To Still Carry Your Twin.
We Will Always Love You No Matter If The Time With You Was Very Short. In Loving Memory Of My Angel 3-6-06
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even tho i'm pregnant again, i never want to forget my angel baby...i miscarried at 10wks..Dec. 11 05'...i'm currently at 10 wks now with this pregnancy, and i get so sad/scared lookin back :-(
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Dear Precious unborn,

I want to let you know that i still think about you. You would be in my arms right now and even though i am pregnant again, this baby will never replace you! You are still in my thoughts and i hope we will all see you in heaven someday. Your dad misses you and we love you,
No one can replace you...
Thinking of you,
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I still plan on re-drawing this, I would like to "perfect" it... but anyway here's something I created when dealing with My Pregnacy Loss, hope you enjoy

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Little Angel and Lovely Mommy

Little Angel of heaven I am your mom
I have been waiting so I can hold your hand
Your heart beat was like traveling horses
running in a field of sand
Your little body was growing inside me
reminding me and telling me that we are family now.
Why did you leave before I got to see your smile.
I pictured all our days together what do I do now.
what are his reasons did I do something wrong somehow.
Why has God taken you so early in your life
Little Angel of heaven I feel like a part of me is gone
please give me a sign that will help me move on.


Dear lovely Mommy I am your Little Angel
holding your hand now.
place your hand over your heart and feel it
I am there our heat beating together as one.
My body is so strong now and bathed
with the spirt of God.
I will always be your family
until the end of time I give you my word.
Dear lovely Mommy I am sorry I had to leave so soon
but there are plans for me here in heaven and you
will be so proud of me when your time comes to.
Picture the brightest light when you close your
eyes at night you will see a glimps of me
smiling as I watch over you tonight.
You will go on Dear lovely Mommy I want you to
stay strong. Time will pass like a summer storm.
Dear lovely Mommy you did nothing wrong this
is just the way it has to be you will someday understand
I am still hear and never to be gone
listen for my laughter in a glorious song.
You will meet me some beautiful day at the pearly gates
of heaven dont you cry because I did not die.
Thank you Mommy for giving me life
I am so happy here in heaven. Jesus is a glorious sight.[/b]
i have never lost a child, but i ahve to say that this is beautiful. absolutely so true. my pastor talked to us when we were getting our baby dedicated, he said that we had to make a promise to God that if he chose to take our little one before we were "ready" that we would not blame Him, that we would undertsand that it was how it was suppose to happen and that he would then be with Jesus in heaven. this poem reminds me of what my pastor said...
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May 22nd, 2006, 09:05 AM
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I got pregnant in April 2005- had a miscarriage at the end of May (on Memorial Day) and then got married July 2nd. When I m/c'ed, I bought a little charm at the mall. It's a precious moments angel with a blue topaz for Dec (when my angel would have been born). I wear it around my neck every day. For my wedding though, I had a different necklace so I wore the charm attached to my bracelet. It's hard to see but these are the only pics I have (and I promised Astrid I'd post it and just now got a scanner) so here they are. The first pic, it's the little line coming down from my bracelet and the second pic it's laying on my dress, I wish I had a close up shot on it but I hope you can see it.

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William, You are my first angel and you are so special to me. You were with me for such a short time and I love you and miss you so much. You bought me so much joy while I had you here safe.
Mummy Loves you very very much x

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To my beautiful Angel Boy Charlie, you are in my dreams every night, I think of you every day and I love you more as each day passes, you were too good to live on this earth and now you are an angel in heaven. No matter what happens Daddy and I love you very very much, you bought us so much joy for the short amount of time you where here with us. Do you remember Charlie boy when I would sing to you? Do you remember the song?

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June 20th, 2006, 02:58 PM
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Here's to my baby. Lost on June 14, 2006. I love you and miss you. You're in my heart forever.
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July 6th, 2006, 11:54 PM
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I'm in the throws of losing my twins now.. and my heart feels like it's breaking.. I found this on another website, but it seems so fitting, and brings me to tears each time I read it...

<div align="center">A Lament for My Baby
I never got to hear you laugh
you never saw me cry
didnt get a chance to say "Hello"
you never said "Goodbye"
I didn't think that I could feel
so sad, lost and forlorn.
I never knew God chose his Angels
before some of them were born.
Your life was short yet special
I shared it all exclusively
I felt you breathe, I felt you kick.
You were alive inside of me.
Every baby is an Angel
and every angel is divine
God needed one in heaven
He came down and took mine
And although we are not together
we're not really apart
for you'll always occupy a space
deep within my heart.
Time has begun to ease my pain
It's only some days now I cry.
When I wish I could have said "Hello"
and heard you say "Goodbye"</div>

I printed the poem out on my computer and keep it on my dresser. I'm also hoping to have a line or two engraved onto a piece of jewelry for my 4 little angels. I'll post a picture of the jewelry I'm making in their honor when I finish it.
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