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March 8th, 2010, 02:03 AM
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So I am kind of new still to this whole thing and really just typing trying to figure out what I am to do and feel quite alone...

I had a miscarriage a few months back and have still had problems since such as no periods still after 5 months and fatigue.
I was not feeling well and went in to the doctor a few days ago and was told that my abrupt miscarriage actually disrupted ovaries and I will likely never be able to have a child.

I am only 18 and had the miscarriage due to a push down my mothers stairs...

I couldnt talk about it much then, but now think I can and really just need to know how to cope. I was actually very excited to have a child and have wanted one since I was young and now am finding I have lost that chance for good.

Im not trying to mope but unfortunately cant get out of the habit. Just looking for a little bit of help I suppose.

- Shel
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March 8th, 2010, 08:26 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. It's the right place to be be (though maybe posting down in the main forum would get more response).

My advice would be just to let yourself feel whatever you feel. If you're angry, it's okay to be angry. If you're sad, let yourself be sad. And any time you need to vent, that's what we're here for.

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March 8th, 2010, 01:02 PM
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Shel I am so sorry for your loss... I agree with Brittanie.. Posting on the main board will get more responses... I am glad you have found us, though. Welcome to the board. We are here for you... HUGS..
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March 9th, 2010, 09:19 PM
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Oh hun that is so terrible. You have every right to cry and be angry and mope. You have had so much lost to you. Please know that we are here for you. Please post on the main board too so the ladies can all be here for you. Many of us forget about the other boards. Many hugs to you.
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