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November 30th, 2011, 10:12 PM
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How long after you got married did you decide to TTC, or did you decide before?
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December 1st, 2011, 01:02 AM
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Well we got married in Sept, and we've not 100% decided on our TTC date, but he said last week probably a year from now. Since we'll be avoiding for a nov/dec/jan baby we wont get many cycles in before we go back to avoiding.

But we've had an estimated time chosen since long before we got married.
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December 1st, 2011, 07:44 AM
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I was five months with our first when we got married. We did things backwards.
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December 1st, 2011, 08:22 AM
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We started right away. Conceived our first 5 months later.
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December 1st, 2011, 08:51 AM
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5.5 years. We talked about TTC a lot the years before we started, but it just wasn't the right time yet. We celebrated our 6 year anniversary 4 months pregnant.
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December 1st, 2011, 02:39 PM
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We started 2.5 years into our relationship, got pregnant with our son within 2 months and got married when he was 4.5. This will be our first child in wedlock. Oh I'm a sinner.
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December 1st, 2011, 06:58 PM
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We were TTC before we got married.
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December 2nd, 2011, 10:10 AM
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We had been married almost a year when we decided we were ready-emotionally, mentally. We hadnt started to plan financially yet. The next month, he was concieved on our 1st anniversary
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December 2nd, 2011, 11:01 AM
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We'd been married about a year and a half, but when it actually came time, DH decided he wasn't ready. Caused quite the fight. Then he came up with a list of criteria that he felt would make him ready and agreed that even if he didn't feel ready, once those were met, we'd go ahead and try, so it ended up being about 3 years after we got married.
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December 4th, 2011, 08:15 PM
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I did not TTA or TTC with my first. So I guess I was trying once I got married. But he didn't actually live with me (military). I got pregnant about 2 months before our 1 year anniversary.
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December 5th, 2011, 05:59 PM
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Addi was two when we finally got married lol. But now we have been married a year and a half and I am just now convincing him to give me ONE MONTH of TTC, if I don't get pregnant that cycle who knows how long it will be.
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December 7th, 2011, 10:55 AM
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Well originally DH and I agreed that we would TTC when we had been married for 5yrs. I was too impatient so we started TTC 1yr and 9 months after we got married and I was 6wks pregnant on our 2nd anniversary.
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December 12th, 2011, 10:30 AM
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We didn't deiced to TTC lol I got married Oct 2004 and had our 1st July 2005 So i was either a few weeks pregnant when we got married or I got pregnant on our wedding night.
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December 13th, 2011, 01:15 AM
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The ultimate plan was to TTC in Fall 2006 for a summer 2007 baby. We got pregnant when we weren't "trying" or not using BC and got a summer 2006 baby instead. We were just over a year married (since we were married in 2004).

That said, God has really shown me what "my plans" for our timeline for our children is not really what he agrees with. We didn't want a winter baby and the first year we avoided around the times that we would have conceived a December baby and a year and a few months later I conceived a December baby. Now I wouldn't change it for the world (well maybe I would choose to not be so busy this week, but hey - she makes me so happy).
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