[LJD3Tdance]

So your dh/so, how involved is he in your FAM/NFP at the moment? Or is it some mystic thing that you are totally aware of and he just asks what's going on when he wants to dtd?

[MeggysMommy]

He doesn't really pay attention. I do all that for the both of us.

[plan4fate]

I do most of it.. he does ask how it's going, if everythings "ok" with me and what not. But other than that his biggest concern is where he's allowed to finish. lol

[rlh27]

DH likes to look at my chart and is fascinated by it, but if you asked him to interpret it, he wouldn't be able to. Right now his question is "Do you still need my sperm this month?"

[ShawnaCAN]

He has the link to my chart, so he checks it to see where we're at.

[MeggysMommy]

Though whats funny is that DH asked me last night when is your period gonna start? I told him if my temp dropped this morning then today, but it didn't anyway.

[LJD3Tdance]

My dh is never involved, even when I'm not pregnant. His involvement is whatever I tell him to do

[jhmomofmany]

I'm thankful we learned through the Couple to Couple League, and they really impress the idea that NFP is the responsibility of the COUPLE and not just the woman. We were a teacher couple for a few years (before we moved to the middle of nowhere) so he is at least as good as I am at interpreting my charts when I'm cycling.

[bellabri287]

DH thinks its interesting when he watches me chart but otherwise is not too concerned. since he decided we are ok to TTC this and next cycle, I think he will be a little more concerned with O & when my period is coming. but I don't want to overwhelm him, I want to BD every other or every 2 days until my period so he doesn't feel like this is a change only so we can TTC. we'll see how things go.

i know if things don't happen he will become more inquisitive and involved in my body & charting.

[SammyJ]

Nah, he just listens to me. He has some clue what my fertility signs mean just because I talk about it, but he doesn't really understand the temping thing.