[mrsb1029]

What is a good male libido booster? And can you conceive off of BD'ing just once a week. The reason I ask is because this is mine and my hubby's situation. He is mostly too tired or even too stressed to BD usually 5 days out of the week. If things are going well in a week, it will be twice, but we usually only BD once a week.

It is a frustrating situation and our sex life has only been this way since he started this job about 19 months ago. It didn't bother me until I realized, after we started trying, that conceiving is harder than many people make it look. I love my husband dearly and would love some words of encouragement.

[Keakie]

If you're charting your cycle (which I gather you are, from your ticker) and tracking your fertility signs, I would absolutely think it's possible to conceive even if you're only BDing once or twice per week. The important thing is when in relation to ovulation are you BDing?

[mrsb1029]

It usually depends because we almost always only BD on weekends. This cycle I had 7 days almost 8 of fertile CM and we BD on day 1 of fertile CM.

[ShawnaCAN]

You can certainly conceive with BDing only once or twice per week, but it's critical to try when you're at your most fertile - that's when the CM is slippery. BDign 5 times per week could actually make it harder to conceive, it's a myth that you need to need to BD a lot to get pregnant. The truth is that you need to BD at the right time to get pregnant.

[mrsb1029]

Thanks ladies It's probably gonna be a long ride to my bfp.

[rlh27]

I don't have any advice, but I wanted to be included in this thread so you would know I'm thinking about you

I hope you and DH find a good balance of frequency but not overworking him.

[mrsb1029]

Thanks, Lucy