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I have noticed that since I went off birth control pills, I've had a better sex drive. It was very, very low before that. I don't know if it's the BC or the fact that I'm losing weight and feel sexier. Any opinions on this? I know that when DH and I were intimate before BC, I wanted to have sex more. It was also new to me. Then, I started BC, and the drive went away. I don't know if the newest wore off, if it's because my weight went up with Depo so I felt less sexy, or if it was the chemicals in the BC. Any ideas?
I've never been on bc, but hormonal changes definatly change my libido...
and stupid men...at the moment I don't care if I ever have sex again, except I want more babies someday...but I'd have to like my husband to be willing to have a baby with him...so he'll have to rectify the fact that I don't first!
I got really sick with Depo so if we BD one time a week (being married for only 6 months and abstaining beforhand) I was happy. I gained 50 pounds so that didn't help in any way to want to get naked so horomonal BC really made me want to hole up and not do anything. I had a good sex drive until this m/c but I think that once I get a hang of all the rules it will come back. Poor DH thinks that I am starting to hate him because he is always asking me if I love him. He knows sex =/= love but it still hurts him when I don't even want it on my birthday.