I'm an online person--I was keeping a written record for a while because the DH kept saying he liked being able to look at it and see where we are but he never looked at the darn thing so I stopped updating it

He only gets the bug to see our finances a few times a year and its easy for me to pull the numbers and show him. I do keep a written calendar with due dates and things so if he ever does need to take over making some payments or something, its organized and ready to go and should be relatively easy for him to handle. He is so not a finance person....