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July 6th, 2009, 12:58 PM
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Hi ladies...sorry i have been sorta MIA lately...its been a crazy month.

July 4 marked 2 years since my dad passed. It was a tough day esp because my mom went out of town this past week and asked me if would remove my dads clothes from his closet. She had already bagged it up but she couldn't bring herself to bring it the goodwill. she was in tears asking me and i was fighting the tears back to say "sure i can". we went and picked them up but i can't get rid of them. we are just gonna keep them at my house for a while.

its hard to even imagine that it has been 2 years. it honestly feels like only 6 months at the most...it is still so fresh and vivid in my mind.

thanks for reading ladies...sorry to be absent for so long....
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July 7th, 2009, 09:53 PM
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i'm sorry. It's been almost 12 years since he passing (on Aug. 5) and it still sometimes feels like it was only the other day. My mom got rid of almost everything after he died (because we lived in diff states then) and I can't imagine what it would be like to have to do that. I did though get to keep a sweatshirt and shirt of his (which i'm wearing now). Just take as much time as you need with it and when your ready it'll happen you know? As well if you feel comfortable with it maybe pick out something that you did love from it. This shirt that I mentioned is always a comfort for me when I miss him.
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July 10th, 2009, 10:12 AM
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I'm sorry ..... I can def relate... my step father ( which i thought was kinda soon ) but i guess her thought he had to do it right away bagged up her stuff & i had to take to the churches to donate...

It's been a little over a yr since my mom passsed....

HUGGS!!!!
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July 12th, 2009, 05:24 PM
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thanks ladies for your words of encouragement. it really means alot!
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July 12th, 2009, 05:24 PM
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thanks ladies for your words of encouragement. it really means alot!
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July 12th, 2009, 05:24 PM
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thanks ladies for your words of encouragement. it really means alot!
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August 22nd, 2009, 08:35 PM
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I'm sorry and I know how it feels...My dad only waited 3 weeks after mom and made me get rid of everything...An most of it I brought home and still have it to this day..
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August 24th, 2009, 06:22 PM
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HUGS! I know how it feels. My mom being gone 6 months now still feels like yesterday or only a few days ago.
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August 31st, 2009, 07:24 AM
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I'm sorry. I feel the same way. Know that there are people who are going through what you are.
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