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My dad killed himself when I was 10 yrs old and I believe that he is my guardian angels. I actually told that to mom who was pestering me what I think about my dad she went crazy and thinking I was crazy for believing that my dad was my guardian angel.
She said This : He Abdanoned You and You Think He is Your Guardian Angel ? I said Yes , then she goes I just can't believe that you still think he is god . No I never said he was god . She goes on how he left us and abdanoned you all alone but you still think he's your guardian angel .
Then she goes you show more respect to him than you do me .
I was very hurt by her action that I did do a slip of a lash out at her when talking to her then I realized what I said then she wanted me to repeat it .
So then I walked away then she goes fine Run Away like you always do .
Your mum is obviously having a lot of difficulty handling what's happened, and probably feels abandoned herself and is projecting that on to you. I'm sorry she really hurt you but from what you've said I would say it is out of hurting herself and not that she meant to hurt your feelings.
Most mediums believe that when spirits cross over they see things from a heightened perspective. Your dad may have been troubled and unable to continue here on earth, but now he is on the other side it's likely that he is transformed, healed, and much better able to watch over and protect you, and it's quite possible that he's become a protective guide to you, which would explain why you feel his presence. That's a truth that only you can know in your heart, and nobody can take it away from you.
I'd try to avoid the subject with your mom and just be there for her all you can. I hope things blow over soon.
As for guardian angels I believe that angels are a different type of being to us humans and that it's very very rare for a human soul to become an angel or vice versa. But I'm not saying it's not a possibility.