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July 27th, 2009, 11:37 AM
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Why is it that DH says he wants to TTC but then when I tell him I am Oing he has a "stomach ache". Okay, so maybe he really did not feel well but still. It is like he comes up with an excuse just b/c he does not want to be told what to do (ME!)

Does any body else's DH/SO do this???
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July 27th, 2009, 01:17 PM
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My DH is kinda doing that. I thought I was getting my 2nd PPAF since I was spotting a little yesterday, but it was brownish blood. I googled and apparently when you ovulate you can spot and it might be brownish. So, I did an OPK and it was just about +. I just did another one an hour ago and it was +, so I think I'm O'ing! I told DH we are BDing tonight and probably tomorrow and he was like "I'm tired though, it's my first day with the new job, blah blah". I'm pretty sure I'll talk him into it though!
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July 27th, 2009, 09:27 PM
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Just about any time *I* instigate sex...dh isn't in the mood. If I whine enough and act insulted enough he'll "cave"...any other time he BEGS me and I'm not in the mood lol....

Maybe if you didn't tell him you are O'ing so that he doesn't feel the pressure?
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We aren't to give a baby milk, berries, or peanut butter. We are to introduce new foods one at a time. But it's OK to inject several viruses, bacteria, aluminum, formaldehyde, phenoxyethanol, animal serum, mercury, squalene and more into an 8 week old? I don't think so.
In order to be healthy it is an unfortunate fact that people must be allowed the opportunity to be ill. I trust my body and those of my children to work correctly against the relatively benign diseases they vax for, and do not trust the ingredients in the vaccinations.
Our choice to not vax isn't based in ignorance, poverty, conspiracy theory and rumor. It's research, common sense, fact and evidence based..something the medical community has largely forgot about.
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July 27th, 2009, 09:49 PM
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Nikki, I say give him some Pepto Bismal and rape him. LOL! Men are so funny sometimes.
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July 30th, 2009, 05:08 PM
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My DH is ALWAYS the instigator. He's ready at the drop of a hat. Hilariously, only a couple of times throughout our 14 years of marraige have I instigated or initiated sex. One of those times was when we were ttc and I knew I was about to ovulate. He kept trying to say "tomorrow night, we'll do it tomorrow." but I was afraid tomorrow would be too late. I pestered him all night long and finally he "caved" and by this I mean he lay on his back and let me "climb on". We got pregnant...with twins!!! We laugh about it now...
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July 31st, 2009, 10:01 PM
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LOL Angela. That is a fun story!
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Momma to Emma, Elzie, Gretchen, Olive, and Rogan

We aren't to give a baby milk, berries, or peanut butter. We are to introduce new foods one at a time. But it's OK to inject several viruses, bacteria, aluminum, formaldehyde, phenoxyethanol, animal serum, mercury, squalene and more into an 8 week old? I don't think so.
In order to be healthy it is an unfortunate fact that people must be allowed the opportunity to be ill. I trust my body and those of my children to work correctly against the relatively benign diseases they vax for, and do not trust the ingredients in the vaccinations.
Our choice to not vax isn't based in ignorance, poverty, conspiracy theory and rumor. It's research, common sense, fact and evidence based..something the medical community has largely forgot about.
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