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  #1  
October 8th, 2006, 09:18 AM
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Ok, how 'bout it? Are all your kids planned? Any oopsies or pleasant surprises?

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October 8th, 2006, 10:01 AM
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1 unplanned i was 16 married her dad when she was 6 months old & been married 16 years!

#2 planned

#3 planned

(was told no more due to high dose chemo)

#4 unplanned and a wonderful surprise

(dh had vasectomy)

#5 unplanned a wonderful exciting surprise




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October 8th, 2006, 11:38 AM
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Only one of my 3 kids were planned! LOL! I got pregnant with my oldest child right out of high school. I ended up marrying the father of the baby and a couple of years later we decided to have another baby. We literally tried for one month and I got pregnant (I guess we were pretty fertile). We split up a couple of years after our second child was born (long story). A few years after that I met my DH. We weren't planning on having a baby, but we weren't preventing either. We got pregnant about a year after we started dating. It's weird because we only bd'ed once that month and I got pregnant! LOL! Now we've been ttc baby #4 for 6 months and NOTHING is happening! I keep joking to DH that the trick is only bding once in a month and that's when it will happen
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October 8th, 2006, 03:38 PM
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Only one of my 3 kids were planned! LOL! I got pregnant with my oldest child right out of high school. I ended up marrying the father of the baby and a couple of years later we decided to have another baby. We literally tried for one month and I got pregnant (I guess we were pretty fertile). We split up a couple of years after our second child was born (long story). A few years after that I met my DH. We weren't planning on having a baby, but we weren't preventing either. We got pregnant about a year after we started dating. It's weird because we only bd'ed once that month and I got pregnant! LOL! Now we've been ttc baby #4 for 6 months and NOTHING is happening! I keep joking to DH that the trick is only bding once in a month and that's when it will happen [/b]

Lol, I hear ya. Dh's and I's first was like that. Him and I were both in the Navy. I slipped down to see him when his boat came in port. I only saw him for a 3 day weekend. I hadn't seen him in two months. Then he left for a six month deployment. Imagine his surprise when he got a call that I was pregnant. I mean what are the odds of that.

Anyhow, let's see. Austin was planned. Steven wasn't planned, but we weren't preventing. Kaelan was the same. Chrissy, Megan, and Leo were planned.

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October 9th, 2006, 01:22 PM
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We had one unplanned pregnancy that resulted in a misscarriage. And then two more planned pregnancies that were also m/c's. Both of my kiddos were planned though. I must say though that after ttc Beth for a while and also have the 3 misscarriages we were pretty suprised when we got pregnant with Matthew the first month we tried!
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October 12th, 2006, 09:21 AM
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I have 4 kids....the last one (the 5 year old) was a great surprise for me (not so much for her father)...that's why I had my tubal ligation after she was born..(and recently had it reversed to have more)

I also had 3 other pregnancies that were planned, but I miscarried them.
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October 12th, 2006, 09:26 AM
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Number 1 was unplanned. We were engaged but not married. My second (who died at 2 weeks old) was also an oopsie. My first was only 7 mos old and I was still BF'ing. The one I m/c in June of 05 was kind of an oopsie. The rest were planned.

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October 12th, 2006, 10:13 AM
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#1 and #3 were unplanned, #2 was planned.
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October 14th, 2006, 11:49 AM
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number 2 was planned the rest were surprises
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October 14th, 2006, 06:30 PM
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ds1- a HUGE surprise
dd1- planned
dd2-planned
ds2-surprise
ds3-very planned but still a surprise, LOL
ds-4- planned, planned and more planned...
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October 16th, 2006, 10:37 PM
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#1 was unplanned. I was 15 when I got pregnant

#2 was unplanned. I was 17 when I got pregnant

#3 was planned though it took 3.5 years from the time we started trying

Of course the next one is planned also.
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October 17th, 2006, 05:51 AM
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DS1 unplanned- opsie, I was 15 (high-school "sweetheart")
DS2 planned but unplanned lol, we planed for another child about 3-4 years from then, but I was already pg when we made that decision, lol. (ex-husband)
DD same as above, except replace 3-4 with 1 (DH)

We are planning on 3 more, we are TTC #4, and have decided that we want to TTC #5 right after #4 (depending on how the pg and L&D go) and #6 we are unsure of a time to start TTC. I would LOVE to have twins for #6 so I get #7 too, lol. And if I get #7 I'll get #8, because we have decided no middle child, lol.
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October 17th, 2006, 11:49 AM
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all of ours were planned.
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October 17th, 2006, 01:59 PM
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All of ours have been planned.
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October 17th, 2006, 09:23 PM
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As I was reading down the post I almost thought I was the only one who had no "surprises".
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October 18th, 2006, 08:39 AM
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hiya,

1st unplanned i was 17
2nd planned i was 18
3rd planned i was 21
4th planned i was 24
5th planned born sleeping i was 26
6th planned misscarried 4 weeks ago
7th planning!!!!
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October 20th, 2006, 01:18 PM
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First one supprise right before i turned 16 turned 17 day after he was born. All ours were suprises we always said we wanted to plan our next after having one and never got a chance to plan one.I got preggo last sept and ended up mc about 6 weeks i then knew i wanted another one.So now i am ready to plan or trying hope it happens this month kristina
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