[samantharae]

So I am 13 DPO and I'm still getting <strike>BFP</strike> BFN's. See I want them so bad I even type them!. I had a small dip yesterday and I only went up like .01 degree this morning. Getting a BFN @ 13 dpo is really depressing. I'll test again in the morning but if there is nothing then I'm not testing again for a little while. I'm really bummin and prayin that im not out!

ETA: on the intercourse timing analyzer we got "High" & under implantation signs it says "Possibly Triphasic on Day 22 " so im assuming that means that implantion would have occured 5 days ago would that make it still too early?

Your temp is still good. What type of tests are you using?

[samantharae]

internet cheapies from early-pregnancy-tests.com according to peeonastick.com there sensativity is 20.

Personally, I'd try a named brand, but that's just me. I got a strong BFP on 14DPO with a FRER, but a lighter BFP on a cheapie on 16DPO

[samantharae]

Personally, I'd try a named brand, but that's just me. I got a strong BFP on 14DPO with a FRER, but a lighter BFP on a cheapie on 16DPO[/b]

i was thinkin about going to buy some tonight. im gonna look online for coupons [im cheap!]

[sjkduke]

I'd try a first response. Good luck!

[TanyaZ]

I agree, try a brand name!! I got 2 positives on the brand name and still really isnt allthat much of a line on my internet cheapie ones.
I have all ny fingers and toes and anything else that can be crossed, crossed for you!!
Your temps are still high (and still look that same as mine) so best of luck!!!

Keep us posted!!

[samantharae]

i went and bought 2 first response tests.....they are screaming at me to take one!!! lol im gonna wait for FMU I will update yall ASAP

[TanyaZ]

can't wait to hear how you go!!!

ooooh don't forget to let us know!

[samantharae]

I had a pretty big temp drop this morning. Still above the coverline but I'm sure I'll fall below it tomorrow. I wasn't ready to let go of all hope yet so I tested anyways and I got another BFN on a first response. ]: I'm sure Johnny will say we can try again next month but I don't know if I can feel like this again, I don't know how some of the women on here can do it. I have so much respect for them. I've never been so upset over a BFN in my life. I think the palm reader is full of crap and that there is something wrong with me. When I had Brady they found out that I have a uterine anomoly. I guess when my uterus was forming it didnt form all the way and the right side is hard [thats why my water broke and brady was born 5 weeks early, my uterus is too small due to the hardened area] i never got in for the testing because johnnys work switched insurance companies and the price of having me on his insurance went up and we just cant afford it. The drs asked me when I had Brady if we had trouble conceiving and i told thjem no [we conceived him first month of trying] and he said that i was very lucky. I guess I just need to be thankful that I have my son and get used to him being an only child. Thanks for all your support & I'm sorry this was really long.

ETA: Fertility Friend also took away my "implantation sign" I guess it was when I got my Temp Drop.

number 1. there is nothing wrong with you! TTC takes time (unfortunately), and as I learned... but wouldn't be told whilst TTC.... trying too hard DOES hinder. The month we conceived, I had decided we were out 2 days before O. Our DTD wasn't very successful (DH suffers with ED), but look where it got us. I don't know if it was my frame of mind "Oh well, that's this cycle funked, let's get AF over with and move forward". Who knows!

number 2. As exciting as readings can be, I'm sorry to say I agree with you. I had 2 readings last year that told me I'd conceive in July and August. We got our BFP 8 months later.

As for how do women do it each month? If/when AF arrives, you'll have your down and upset time, but then you will pick up and you will have the courage and strength to try again next cycle. Seeing a BFN is devestating no matter how long one has been TTC.