[samantharae]

The BFN's I have been getting are really going to my head. I was looking at the website mymonthlycycle.com that i had used from dec 07 til mid august when i started temping and i went ahead and put in all my temps from this past month and it averaged out all my cycle lengths and it says my average cycle is 33 days not 27-28 and it said i should have o'd on the 7th of september [we DID bd on that day too] which if that was true i would only be 8dpo I am terrible at interpreting [sp?] charts so could you ladies look at my chart. my temp dipped this morning but if *crosses fingers* i did o on the 7th instead then it could be implantation right? i am grabbing at straws i know and you ladies probably think im crazy! what do you think the chances are?

[TanyaZ]

Aww hunni, im sorry i cant help with the charting thing - but if it helps, your chart still looks like mine! I too had a dip this morning, im goin to go and get another brand test today cos i got a digi the other day and it said 'not pregnant' but the other tests came up with the second line!!
I know how hard it is to see the negative every month - it took 7mths to conceive my DD!
Dont lose hope til AF shows up!!

[samantharae]

Aww hunni, im sorry i cant help with the charting thing - but if it helps, your chart still looks like mine! I too had a dip this morning, im goin to go and get another brand test today cos i got a digi the other day and it said 'not pregnant' but the other tests came up with the second line!!
I know how hard it is to see the negative every month - it took 7mths to conceive my DD!
Dont lose hope til AF shows up!![/b]

well see this is only our 2nd month of TTC but i was SO confident! i still feel like im pregnant. we conceived our son the 1st month trying [we also BD every day lol so there was no missing it!] DH said next month we will just BD every other day or try for every day again. i just wanted this month SO bad!

[TanyaZ]

this month was only our 3rd mth trying this time and second month temping. After the disappointment of the negtive last month we went all out and got opk's and preseed and BD sooooo much in the 'fertile window' (was quite exhasting, lol).
Fingers crossed the witch stays away for you!!

I hope something happens soon for you! Waiting is the hardest part! If you have good insurance, go see your doctor and have him run a test, or wait a week if AF hasn't shown up. If this isn't the month for you don't lose hope, okay? Try using OPKs next time (hopefully there isn't a next time!!!!!!)

"Should have Od on the....". Is a myth. Every woman is different. If we paid attention to all the sites/books... we would all have a 28 day cycle, ovulating on CD14 and having a 14 day LP.

Chickie, each person Os on their own CD and the only ways you can determine that is by paying attention to your body. Take me for example, I had short cycles, average of 27 days, but was a late Oer, average of around CD15-17. Take no notice!

[sjkduke]

It will only make you lose your mind!!!