[samantharae]

I am such a loser sometimes. FF had my O as cd 18, and I kept lookin at it saying "that just doesnt look right! i think it was more cd 21." well i just went and looked at my chart and realized i for some reason had CD13 discarded. I went and 'undiscarded' it and guess what...it moved my o date to cd 21!!! well no bd on cd 20 or 21 so im more than likely out this month! ugh! i wanna smack myself right now /:

[kruff79]

Maybe not, but you BDed on day 17, 18 and 19. That's plenty close enough to have you in the running for this cycle.

[Nami]

I actually hear that's ideal for trying for a girl so there's many ladies that do not BD that close to O and still get pregnant.

[shauna0325]

Don't give up just yet, there was plenty of BDing during your fertile window, it doesn't have to be just the day of and day before O. I'd say there is still a chance. When do you plan to test?

[Chelnae6]

Yep CD17-19 should be good enough to do the trick. Many people dont BD the day before or day of 0 and still get a

Swimmers can live for up to 5 days in fertile CM! Don't count yourself out!! I got my baby from a single BD 2 days before O!! my chart link

I agree don't count yourself out yet.

I got pregnant with my daughter with 3days between bd and O. cycle#5 in my charts.

[samantharae]

i tested on sunday and got a bfn and now my temps have been slowly going down so im just waiting on the witch to show. tho my boobs hurt really bad when i took my bra off tonight. they felt like huge bruises.

[sjkduke]

I'm sorry hon! Best of luck with this cycle!