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June 1st, 2009, 10:28 AM
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I get down sometimes. Honestly, I am not sure if we will get pregnant again. I know that I probably sound pretty pessimistic but I tend to prepare myself for the worst case scenario. That is just how I cope.

My kids cheer me up. I remember when I was trying to get pregnant with Jeremy. He was actually my fourth pregnancy. I still remember it. I thought I was going to miscarry again and I didn't. I try to remember those feelings when I get down.
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June 1st, 2009, 04:44 PM
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Well I am the same way I always feel that I will not get a BFP. DH and I hae not used anything since Paige was born but for a while we did not DTD around O time. It took 15 cycles of TTC and Clomid to have Paige so I have a fear that I can not get pregnant wthout Clomid.

Tonight I think I will have a Mudslide to deal with AF coming before the AM. I usually have a snack that I am not supposed to have because I have been watching what I ate for 2 weeks because I was hoping to get a BFP.
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June 1st, 2009, 05:47 PM
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I don't have any kids yet, but I know i will someday, even if it means using a surrogate or adopting. When I get a BFN, or AF shows.... I use shopping therapy. My item of choice is cloth diapers. I have quite the collection already. This cycle's treat was a swaddlebees all-in-one. It came today. So cute and tiny.
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June 2nd, 2009, 02:48 AM
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That's a good idea, Alice!

I would usually treat myself to something nice as well, whether it be food or retail therapy!
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June 3rd, 2009, 04:59 PM
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I nice treatment at the spa is always a good pick me up. It's so relaxing. Great way to get stress free and to TTC again!
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June 3rd, 2009, 05:02 PM
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I nice treatment at the spa is always a good pick me up. It's so relaxing. Great way to get stress free and to TTC again!
Oh that sounds nice. Nice to see you over here again. I thought you left us.
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