[Crys]

Should I call the doctor again or well I don't know what to do.

Here I am on cd 35 with no end in sight. Af I guess has forgotten about me. In the past 1.5 weeks Ive had two blood test done to tell me Im not pg. Yet no af? Ive had on cd 17 and on cd 30 spotting that lasted no more than an hour. On cd 30 there was tons of ewcm with the spotting..

Should I call the doctor and see what they recommend or just wait it out and see when she shows again? I feel like a failure because I am getting nowhere with ttc if I cant even get af to show her ugly face!

[Admin-pattyandthemoos]

Originally Posted by Crys

Should I call the doctor again or well I don't know what to do.

Here I am on cd 35 with no end in sight. Af I guess has forgotten about me. In the past 1.5 weeks Ive had two blood test done to tell me Im not pg. Yet no af? Ive had on cd 17 and on cd 30 spotting that lasted no more than an hour. On cd 30 there was tons of ewcm with the spotting..

Should I call the doctor and see what they recommend or just wait it out and see when she shows again? I feel like a failure because I am getting nowhere with ttc if I cant even get af to show her ugly face!

((HUGS)) I think the reason your cycle is so wacky is because you are coming off of depo. Even though you took just the one shot it can really mess up your cycles and takes a while to get out of your system. JM has an article about this.
Getting Pregnant after Birth Control

I think if you really want to start ttc you may want to talk to your doctor about this. I think your cycles will get back to normal but it make take a little while. Charting will definitely help you to figure out if your body is starting to regulate itself again.

[Crys]

Im just afraid of looking stupid calling and bugging them because she hasn't shown. I was advised by him to have my children sooner rather than later. They know Im ttc..I just..grr.

At this point I would be happy to just see af. I would have thought four months off depo I would have something going on down there..

but nothing

[Admin-pattyandthemoos]

Originally Posted by Crys

Im just afraid of looking stupid calling and bugging them because she hasn't shown. I was advised by him to have my children sooner rather than later. They know Im ttc..I just..grr.

At this point I would be happy to just see af. I would have thought four months off depo I would have something going on down there..

but nothing

I have watched enough gals over on Am I Pregnant go through this. It is really frustrating but it does get back to normal eventually. I have gotten to the point where I don't care if I am a pain in the butt with my doctors. I just annoy them until they take care of me. LOL. As long as you aren't being rude who cares. It's your body. You want to ttc. I think it might not hurt to chart for a week or so just to see if anything is happening first.

(((HUGS)))

[Crys]

Im going to give it until cd 45. If nothing by then I will call. Im just..frustrated. And Im never rude to them I love my ob and his staff..Just don't want to look like an idiot for calling and buggin them about it . lol

[Coley]

I'm sure most OB's are used to TTC women buggin' them! I'd definitely make a call if things don't seem to normalize.

[KRW]

I feel your pain. I am on CD 41 right now with no end in sight. My temps have been all over the map, some wet & ewcm but not at the same time as a temp rise...ahhh..I just want af to show up so I can start a new cycle and hopefully o next time!

Its very frustrating isnt it...not knowing whats going on with your own body.

[sjkduke]

Personally, I am a nurse at an OB/GYN practice, and I say bug away! I'm always happy to talk with the women who are TTC...but that's just me.

Anyway, it's very "normal" to have AF be wonky after coming off of depo. Some people go a year before things go back to normal. I'm sorry to say that! Depo is a crazy thing! Not that it's bad, it's just that you never know how your body will react after you come off, you know? Some people have no problems, others do.

Good luck, hang in there, and I hope AF shows soon for you!