[LadyFlyAway]

Ok..I have two questions here. 1.)Is your cervix usually open after AF ends? My AF ended Tuesday but my cervix is very soft and open. I know it's open because I can put the tip of my finger inside. I have also had "snot" type CM that is a mix between creamy and clear both Friday and Saturday. My husband and I did BD both Thursday and Friday so the CM could be sperm 2.) but how do you tell the difference between fertile CM and sperm?

[Admin-pattyandthemoos]

Since you have had a few kids your cervix will probably always feel slightly open. I know mine does. JM has an article on how to tell the difference between EWCM and semen. Here is the link.
Ewcm Egg White Cervical Mucous Or Semen : Fertility Charting Ovulation And Prediction : Getting Pregnant : pregnancy and parenting on JustMommies

My guess is it was creamy CM that you see before you start having the EWCM. A lot of gals will have creamy lotiony looking CM and then later get the EWCM. I usually try to bd regularly (I try not to skip more than two days) until I start seeing EWCM or get a positive opk.

Your temps are still pretty high and you are pretty early in your cycle still so I think you may have a little longer to go. Of course, you haven't been charting long so it is hard to say what is normal for you.