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June 29th, 2009, 06:34 PM
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There's been an unfortunate turn of events. We lost the baby. There was blood on the TP this morning so I took a FRER and it was stark white negative. Matt and I want to start tryng again immediately. I'm not sure how long it will take... i'm still only spotting. But i'm sure it will be coming soon.
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June 29th, 2009, 06:47 PM
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Oh honey... I am so sorry.

My thoughts are with you and Matt.

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June 29th, 2009, 07:32 PM
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I'm so sorry hon, you guys are in my thoughts & prayers
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June 29th, 2009, 07:43 PM
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I am so sorry that you lost your bean. I hope that you can begin to start TTC again real soon and that this time you get a sticky one.
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June 29th, 2009, 07:46 PM
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Aww, I'm so very sorry. Keeping you guys in my T&P.
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June 29th, 2009, 08:57 PM
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I'm so sorry! I know that must be so hard.
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June 29th, 2009, 09:18 PM
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I am so, so sorry.
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June 30th, 2009, 04:10 AM
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Oh Alice. I am so sorry. I went through and read some of your posts to see what was going on and how you were doing. I would make sure you continue to follow up with your doctor. I saw in one of your posts that your hCG levels were rising which could mean a couple things: you could still be pregnant or you could be having an ectopic pregnancy. I am sorry but I am a little paranoid after having two ectopics myself so I tend to find myself worrying about people when maybe I shouldn't.

I had spotting with a few of my pregnancies so I wouldn't rule out the possibility that you are still pregnant, especially not without some blood work or an ultrasound.
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June 30th, 2009, 06:19 AM
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Alice, I just wanted to tell you again how sorry I am. I think Patty definitely has some good advice for you too. Hugs.
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June 30th, 2009, 06:32 AM
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So sorry Alice, that must be heartbreaking Hoping that you get to TTC soon again
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June 30th, 2009, 06:32 AM
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Oh no Alice I'm so sorry!
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June 30th, 2009, 07:40 AM
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Started heavily bleeding and cramping last night. I'm in a lot of pain, but I know now without a doubt that its over. My tests have been getting lighter since 15 dpo, which was the day I had my last blood drawn, the number was 40. Every day since then the lines on my tests were lighter. I was just hoping it was a fluke... but apparently not.
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June 30th, 2009, 09:46 AM
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Oh no I am so sorry. When I was TTC Paige I had a M/C at 6 weeks and it broke my heart. I know it is just so heart breaking. Just know that we are here if you want to talk.
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July 5th, 2009, 07:22 PM
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Hi, Alice. Thinking of you and wondering how you're doing? (((HUGS)))
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July 5th, 2009, 08:15 PM
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I'm doing much better.... just really impatient. I want to dive into TTC again, but i'm bleeding longer than a normal AF. I feel like i'm a greyhound panting at the starting gate staring at that rabbit lol. Just want to get MOVING!
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July 5th, 2009, 08:43 PM
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I'm glad to hear that you are feeling better! I'm sorry about your loss, but I'm glad that you're not dwelling on that which can't be reversed. You can only try, try again, and it will happen when it's meant to happen! I believe in Fate, if ya want to call it that---believing that everything happens for a reason. So, good luck to you, and I'll be thinking about you!
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July 6th, 2009, 01:50 AM
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*super-squishy hugs*

Hey Alice, your attitude is fantastic and I'm sure you've heard how many women have increased fertility after a loss - I really, really hope that's the case with you too!

Lots and lots of good luck and to you!
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July 6th, 2009, 02:49 AM
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(((huge hugs)))
You are in my thoughts and prayers!
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July 6th, 2009, 07:53 AM
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I'm doing much better.... just really impatient. I want to dive into TTC again, but i'm bleeding longer than a normal AF. I feel like i'm a greyhound panting at the starting gate staring at that rabbit lol. Just want to get MOVING!
When I had my miscarriage/ectopic I bled for a while and then I o'd pretty late in my cycle. I was the same way though. Just ready to get started again. I hope you get your bfp quickly.

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