Oh Coley!!! You didn't leave us did you?

Admin-pattyandthemoos · #1 July 8th, 2009, 07:50 AM

Where are you girl! I am missing hanging with ya. I noticed AF started. Stinky stinky witch.

Sending you some mega baby dust for this cycle. I think you deserve to be on the top of our bfp list for July.

Coley · #2 July 8th, 2009, 08:30 AM

No Way did I leave!

I had a minor case of the "I'm not pregnant AGAIN" blues. It's always a bit of a downer when a new cycle starts. But I had to remind myself that even for the perfect couple... there's only a 20-25% chance each month. That bullseye is a bit smaller and harder to hit than we ever imagined.

But I'm back to my usual silver lining self!

Admin-pattyandthemoos · #3 July 8th, 2009, 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Coley

No Way did I leave!

I had a minor case of the "I'm not pregnant AGAIN" blues. It's always a bit of a downer when a new cycle starts. But I had to remind myself that even for the perfect couple... there's only a 20-25% chance each month. That bullseye is a bit smaller and harder to hit than we ever imagined.

But I'm back to my usual silver lining self!

I really understand. I get like that sometimes. I took a break from ttc for a while and was just not trying/not preventing because it was getting to me.

I feel worse for you gals that are ttc your first. I think it is toughest when you are trying for your first. I remember how long it took us to get pregnant with Jeremy. I have my kids to cheer me up so it helps.

I really hope that the bfp trend hits you this month! You so deserve it. And you and your dh are such a cute couple. I can't wait to see what your baby looks like.

Coley · #4 July 8th, 2009, 08:43 AM

Aww aren't you sweet?!?

Yeah... I think the fact that it's our 1st makes it really tough. It's not like we're in our 20's anymore either... so I feel like I've got a clock kinda bearing down on me too.

But it seems like each month something else good happens. Like EWCM for this past cycle when I hadn't had it before... so we're trying to find the wins in each cycle instead of the losses, if that makes any sense.

I can't wait to see that kid too!!! Just because then it will actually EXIST!! HA!!!

Arya · #5 July 8th, 2009, 08:51 AM

Hey Coley, glad you're feeling better! This next cycle will be better. I know what you mean about not in the 20s anymore, that gets me worried too a lot. Baby dust to you for this cycle!