This has only been my first cycle, and I've already been waaaaay too stressed. Not only does it heighten my baby fever (and I've gotta wait till October to TTC), but it causes me to stress out over problems that I probably don't have---and the stress in the end could
cause me problems. I realize that it's a good idea to learn about my cycles, but what if I discover that I do have problems? I don't have the insurance to just go and try to take care of those things, so I think that I just need to have the mindset that, when we TTC, we'll just BD when we want, and it'll happen when it's meant to happen (because we BD so much that we can't possibly miss O-time; sorry tmi). Also, this has been stressing out DF, too, and that is the LAST thing that I want to do. I want him to approach the idea of a baby with the continued calm happiness that he's already shown. So, thank you ladies so much for answering all my questions and being there while I attempted this! But I just don't think that it's for me. You'll still see me around, though, I'm sure.