[Coley]

So my two main boards are this on and TTC Your First Child.

It seems that most of the girls I had gotten kinda close to on TTC #1 are all grads now... and I'm left knockin' around by myself. Sigh.

I know it's not that they ALL are pregnant... but it seems awful quiet on the board there. Glad this one has been hopping lately!!

Gotta love my charters!!

(((HUGS))) It must be hard to feel like everyone (or most) have moved on and you're still trying. I believe that each person is an energy form.. certain energies are needed in life for reasons that we don't know, and of course that energy is created from the mother and the father put together in a certain way to make a certain person. To me it explains why sometimes married couples cannot concieve together, ever, but some women get pregnant from a one night stand at a bar from a man she doesn't know. The universe knows which energy is needed, and as soon as he or she comes along, it will be your turn.

[Coley]

That's probably very true.

I'm sure it'd be a bit easier if I weren't trying for my 1st baby.

[Tammyms]

Hey Nikki, I hear ya! Not that I've been around long, but I see it in my life. Most of my friends are done their families of 2 or 3 and their kids are going to school and whatnot. I have a couple that have just had or are pregnant... like you, I don't want to be lonely for long! Most of all, what I hate is being asked daily about if I'm having kids and when. Kind of hurts to think I want them now but it just hasn't happened yet!

On a happy note, I'm glad to hear the B-6 worked for you, I have a sneaking suspicion my LP will be short judging by similar signs of my last 2 cycles, so I went out and bought some last night to try

Sorry, I didnt mean to sound.. presumptous or anything.. I guess I should keep my mouth closed, being that I have six. I didnt mean anything by it, honest.

[kiwigirl]

I totally understand. I don't ever think that I'm going to get my BFP-I never even get close! I'm so tired of hearing all of my other friends announcing their pregnancies ( I feel guilty for feeling that way), but it's just driving me crazy! Don't worry though, you'll get your BFP sometime soon, I just know it! Big hugs to you. Keep smiling!

[Arya]

Awww that can be sad I have a totally opposite situation, most of my female friends want to have kids! Ever! So it's a bit lonely there I guess. But, you'll get to the same place they have one day!

[AmandaHugNKiss]

*hugs* Hang in there, you! The personality that somes across in your posts is full of wisdom, fun and enthusiasm, and I know you're going to make an amazing Mommie one day - and you're in the right place to help you achieve that goal!

Have my left over baby dust and get busy rolling around in it!

[Admin-pattyandthemoos]

(((((((((((((((HUGE HUGS))))))))))))))))))))

Even though I am not trying for my first, I still remember very much how I felt back then. I had two miscarriages and an ectopic before I finally got pregnant with Jeremy. Even when I got pregnant with him I wasn't hopeful because I had so many losses and his pregnancy started with a lot of bleeding. It is just very hard to stay positive but let me just tell you when your baby is in your arms all of this will be worth it!

I have watched so many girls on JM go through exactly the same thing as you and I have complete faith that you will get pregnant. Stay positive girl!

I used to co-host Am I Pregnant and pretty much all my friends over there have gotten pregnant and had their babies and here I am still trying. But, I just have to believe I will get pregnant again.

Don't give up. You have a lot of friends over here cheering you on!!!

[Wallflower]

I am TTC my first and I know exactly how you feel! I have had three friends announce their pregnancies over the past few months. It sure can get lonely. I tend to feel like I am getting left behind. But don't give up hope, our turn will come!

[Coley]

You guys are so freakin' awesome!!!

Lisa... you didn't sound presumptuous at all... and don't EVER feel like you have to keep your mouth shut! I knew exactly where you were coming from and the sentiment was deeply appreciated.

Amanda... thank you so much for your kind words... they are really touching. And I will gladly Stop, Drop and Roll in your leftover dust!! HA!! HA!!!

I think I got a little blue because I was checking in on the girls who have moved on, because I don't want to not check in on them, kwim? Reading over their stuff and with my chart lookin' ugly at the moment just kinda gave me that familiar old twinge, ya know?

DH said "This'll probably be the month you get knocked up because your chart looks all messed up and not like any of the other ones."

I am feeling much better now though... thanks to you guys!!

Okay, I'm glad, I was worried after your response that I offended you. I certainly don't want to do that, especially when my intention was to make you feel better! lol (((HUGS)))

[Coley]

Don't you worry darlin'... you succeeded!!

[Pandabear25]

Coley! Hey hun, hang in there I know it's way easier said than dong. You will get your BFP. I can tell you are a great person and God knows this too, he can also tell you will be a great mother It's almost stalking- uh, I mean game time GL lol.
LOTS OF BABY DUST YOUR WAY ..