[Blue Eyes 409]

I got a + OPK yesterday and DH is not wanting to TTC. We got in a huge fight about it this week he tells me that he wants to TTC then when it comes down to it he is not ready.... But he tells me he needs to hurry and get ready because we are getting Old. I really don't understand him.

I lost my Dad 5 days after I found out I was pregnant with Paige and with my FIL being so close to death maybe he is scared it will happen to him if I get a BFP. I honestly and not sure what is going threw his mind but I tell you this will not be a happy house this week.

I am not going to push him into it if he is not ready he is not ready so I guess I will just be charting to know when I O and hopefully he will change his mind soon.

I'm sad for you, this would upset me too! Especially RIGHT when you get a positive opk! If my dh had pulled that on me, he wouldn't have been able to concieve becasue I would have ripped... no wait, nice words, lisa, nice words. I'm sorry he did this to you. I hope this is temporary and he comes around really soon.

[Arya]

That's sad Of course you both need to want it, but to be pulling out at the last minute, I couldn't handle that. I hope you can talk about it and that it's not too late

[Blue Eyes 409]

I know I am soo upset I could not sleep last night. My 2 best friends are both TTC and I was so happy that we would all be TTC together and now I am just heartbroken. I don't know what his problem is but I tell you I am not happy with him. He did not work today and he is still in bed he better stay in there till I leave today or he will be wishing that he had left. I really wish that I was not babysitting today.

[Admin-pattyandthemoos]

I would just keep talking to your dh. It sounds like he is trying because you want another and not so much because he does. My dh is sort of the same way. He knows I want another and that we are both getting older so he is going with the flow but he would be okay with not having any more too. Just keep talking to him. That is all you can do. Maybe you can talk him into some make up sex!

((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))

I am so sorry! I'm going through something similar - DH is gung ho during AF but when the time comes he says he doesn't want another baby right now. It's a freakin' rollercoaster, I wish he would just make up his mind.

[Coley]

Oh man, that sucks. I'm so sorry. Men can be a bit squirrelly sometimes... I dunno what that's about.

I hope that he'll come around with a bit of time. Sending positive thoughts your way.

[Maren]

I hope you two can talk, i hate when they change there mind spur of the moment.

You know how I feel about the whole thing. I was hoping that the three of us could do this together.

I was hoping he had changed his mind last night.

I am so sorry.