If you don't get pregnant this cycle

Admin-pattyandthemoos · #1 July 27th, 2009, 08:01 AM

and I have a pretty good feeling I am not... Are you going to do anything differently next cycle?

Yeh, I know I probably have asked this one a few times.

I am going to try to do more bding next month! I figure it might not get me pregnant but it can't hurt and I think all the extra sex has been good for dh and I. When you have been married a long time you can start to fizzle out in that department so next month I want to have some good sex and if I don't get pregnant well at least I had a good time. LOL.

Blue Eyes 409 · #2 July 27th, 2009, 08:10 AM

I know I am not going to get a BFP this month. I am hoping that we can BD around the time I O!!!! We missed it last cycle because DH was sick. I am so hoping that Dh is still up to TTC I think he is a little scared because of his job.

CandaceDianne · #3 July 27th, 2009, 08:19 AM

DH is 100% convinced we will get pg THIS cycle, the one and only. His side of the family tends to get their spouses pg quickly....I guess we will see if that theory is true for US.

If we don't, then I will try to convince DH to let me buy some OPKs. I tried all weekend to convince him at the store, but he says 'we dont need those yet'....blah blah blah.

Coley · #4 July 27th, 2009, 08:23 AM

If we don't get pregnant this cycle, I think the only thing I will change is the BD timing.

DH got a pretty nasty sunburn when we were visiting friends down at the beach, so there were a few days where BD'ing was just out of the question for him. Poor guy. I don't sunburn, so I don't have these problems! HA!!!

Other than that... I don't think there is much we can really change.

sweatshirtgirl · #5 July 27th, 2009, 08:27 AM

I think we did everything right this cycle. We've been trying for 3 months now but this is the first full cycle that I have been really good about charting EVERYTHING! Crossing my fingers! Not sure what else we can do besides go to the dr to make sure everything is ok, which might be the next step...

sweatshirtgirl · #6 July 27th, 2009, 08:29 AM

I think we did everything right this cycle. We've been trying for 3 months now but this is the first full cycle that I have been really good about charting EVERYTHING! Crossing my fingers! Not sure what else we can do besides go to the dr to make sure everything is ok, which might be the next step...

slpliz · #7 July 27th, 2009, 08:52 AM

If we don't get PG this cycle, we won't be able to try again until September. I'm traveling during O time in August.

DeepSouthMommy · #8 July 27th, 2009, 10:02 AM

Well, if I am not pregnant this cycle I plan on doing more charting for next. For the last few months I've only been temping, trying to find a pattern there. But since that doesn't seem to be working out all that well, I'm going to start checking CM and paying more attention to sleep patterns, etc. that may affect the temping aspect. But on that same note, I'm also considering doing vaginal temping to see how that goes. (Look for a new thread regarding that in just a moment!)

Coley · #9 July 27th, 2009, 10:10 AM

with you Lori... Even though on the surface I thought our BD timing could've been better this cycle... I really feel like we did everything just about right. I think we might've BD'd too much in the past... so I didwant to back it down a bit this cycle so that the swimmers would have a chance to regroup and re-intensify.

Wouldn't it be funny if this is the cycle we get our BFP and here I was thinking our BD timing could've been better!? LOL!!

Effervescence · #10 July 27th, 2009, 10:52 AM

I will try to change my sleep habits. I am pretty sure that it's my insomnia that is wreaking havoc on my chart this cycle. My temps are so screwed up. I really don't know if I'll be able to see a shift this cycle.

We'll probably also go to BDing every other day. Poor DH was so tired last cycle by the time O rolled around because I thought it would happen earlier than it did!

sweatshirtgirl · #11 July 27th, 2009, 12:16 PM

lol, that's what happened to us last month...BD too early, b/c I thought I'd O'd on the 10th til I started reading about charts, etc...and temping then realized EWCM sticks around a few days before you actually O (usually). My poor DH was tired too!

Coley · #12 July 27th, 2009, 12:25 PM

HA HA!! I'll bet these guys never thought they'd see the day where they'd have to tell us "Not tonight honey"

HA HA!!

DeepSouthMommy · #13 July 27th, 2009, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Coley

HA HA!! I'll bet these guys never thought they'd see the day where they'd have to tell us "Not tonight honey"

HA HA!!

ROFL!!!!!! Thanks girls, for giving me such a good laugh today!!!

Coley · #14 July 27th, 2009, 12:32 PM

That's what we're here for!!

sweatshirtgirl · #15 July 27th, 2009, 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by coley

ha ha!! I'll bet these guys never thought they'd see the day where they'd have to tell us "not tonight honey"

ha ha!!

exactly!!!

alicenwonderland · #16 July 27th, 2009, 03:02 PM

pretty much plan on keeping things the same as the month i got pregnant. If we're not pregnant this month, we're getting some 7DPO blood work done the following cycle.

AmandaEliz · #17 July 27th, 2009, 03:10 PM

I'm not wound up about this cycle; I'm REALLY hoping for next cycle. For some strange reason, I really want a May baby. Of course, I'd be super excited for an April munchkin, too. We had so much trouble getting preggo with Ethan that I keep telling myself that I can't get too stressed this time.

forest · #18 July 27th, 2009, 03:21 PM

I really hope this cycle is the one for us but I'm not feeling real hopeful about it. If it isn't I want AF here ASAP because DH is having surgery next month and there will be no BDing for us for about a month starting on the 14th. I think we will just do as much BDing as possible before then.

Arya · #19 July 27th, 2009, 05:02 PM

If I don't get pregnant this month then we won't get another chance until january

I hope this is our month!

Admin-pattyandthemoos · #20 July 28th, 2009, 06:12 AM

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Originally Posted by CandaceDianne

DH is 100% convinced we will get pg THIS cycle, the one and only. His side of the family tends to get their spouses pg quickly....I guess we will see if that theory is true for US.

If we don't, then I will try to convince DH to let me buy some OPKs. I tried all weekend to convince him at the store, but he says 'we dont need those yet'....blah blah blah.

Well you are on the right board for a quick bfp. LOL. The girls over here seem to get pregnant their first cycle charting. Good luck!

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Originally Posted by sweatshirtgirl

I think we did everything right this cycle. We've been trying for 3 months now but this is the first full cycle that I have been really good about charting EVERYTHING! Crossing my fingers! Not sure what else we can do besides go to the dr to make sure everything is ok, which might be the next step...

And your chart is looking great too!