Hi Lisa! I have a Jeremy too. He is nine. He was also my first baby.
We would love it if you hung out with us and so you know we have been turning newbies over really quickly here. They all keep getting BFPs on their first cycle charting so.... maybe you will too!!!
Can I see your chart? The big things you need to know is
one) You really need a bbt thermometer and not just a fever thermometer
two) You should try to temp at the exact same time every day and do NOT get out of bed when you take your temp.
three) You should try to have at least three hours of sleep
four) You should also be charting your cervical mucous
If you do these things your chart should be easy to read. I would also recommend reading our charting school subforum (still a work in progress) and JM also has a good charting section under "Getting Pregnant".
Also ask lots of questions. We like answering them! Glad you joined us!!!!