I think I'm out....venting

NickieH · #1 August 12th, 2009, 06:04 AM

So I know I'm only 9 DPO but I think I am out for this cycle

My temps went up after O but have not even gone as high as previous cycles. Check out my chart, what do you think? I think if I was pregnant I would have seen my temps rise more by now. So I guess I'm just waiting for AF to show....GRRR! I hate my body sometimes

On to another cycle of waiting for disappointment. I'm starting to feel like its never going to happen and its my fault. I know that that is kind of irrational but its really getting to me that its taking so long. I thought I'd be preggo by the end of the summer but I don't think I have a chance now. Part of me wants to give up but a much larger part wants a baby so we will keep trying even if it is depressing

I am trying not to get to negative about it but as you can probably tell it isn't working anymore. Sorry I'm being such a bummer.

Rennie · #2 August 12th, 2009, 06:17 AM

I don't think you can say that you are out yet. There is no 'right' temperature to say that you are pregnant during the TWW. Your temps are all above the coverline, so you're still in this. Don't get down yet. YOu have 5 days to see if AF shows up or not. Chin up!

CandaceDianne · #3 August 12th, 2009, 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Rennie

I don't think you can say that you are out yet. There is no 'right' temperature to say that you are pregnant during the TWW. Your temps are all above the coverline, so you're still in this. Don't get down yet. YOu have 5 days to see if AF shows up or not. Chin up!

Hang in there!! You chart still looks good!

Admin-pattyandthemoos · #4 August 12th, 2009, 07:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Rennie

I don't think you can say that you are out yet. There is no 'right' temperature to say that you are pregnant during the TWW. Your temps are all above the coverline, so you're still in this. Don't get down yet. YOu have 5 days to see if AF shows up or not. Chin up!

ITA! I have seen all kind of bfp charts and more than one gal post something about being out just to get a bfp the next day or two days later. Your chart looks good to me! I have never gotten a bfp at 9dpo so I still think you are in good shape. You did a lot of bding at all the right times. Stay positive!!!

robineliza · #5 August 12th, 2009, 08:08 AM

I know how you feel because I keep thinking similar things about my chart - but just from doing some chart stalking on FF I can see that BFP charts come in all shapes and sizes...so you really aren't out yet! I'm crossing my fingers & toes for you!

NickieH · #6 August 12th, 2009, 08:49 AM

Thanks girls for your support. I'm feeling more positive now that rational people have talked me down.

But I'm definitely not testing early this cycle; I don't want to suffer any unnecessary disappointment. I'm going to try to ignore these negative thoughts and focus on happy ones, and I will be keeping all my crossables crossed that we will all see our BFP very soon. Baby Dust to all

Arya · #7 August 12th, 2009, 08:58 AM

More baby dust to you!!

Coley · #8 August 12th, 2009, 10:44 AM

That's the spirit!!! Your temps are still pretty far above your CL... so I totally wouldn't be counting yourself out just yet.

We are all snowflakes... no two of us are exactly the same and so it is with our charts as well!

I will totally love reminding you of this "I think I'm out" post if you wind up with a BFP this cycle!!