Well, my SO doesn't live with me yet (we're working towards it) so after testing positive at something like 6am, I had to wait until 4pm for him to get to me after work! I was wracking my brains for hours, wondering exactly how to word it but nothing quite 'right' would come to mind. I decided to play it by ear. So ths is how it went:
He arrived, and after the usual hug'n'kiss greeting he noticed my aptop and grbbed it saying 'Oooh, I just wanna look at a car I'm thinking about buying'
So I sat next to him. He starts looking at this sporty, 2 seater convertable number. He asks me 'So, what do you think, it's nice, eh?'
And then it came to me... I reply 'Yeah, but... you can't fit a baby seat in it.'
He froze for a second. Then glanced at me sideways. Then back to the screen. Then looked at me sideways again. I said 'Why are you looking at me all funny?'
'Why are you saying funny stuff like that?!'
'You did say let's get your coil taken out and see what happens. Well... it's hppened!'
*completely shocked face* 'You're pregnant?!'
He then had what I would describe as a mini anxiety attack! Got very flustered and stuttery, was clearly lost for words. This lasted all of about a minute until he jumped up, grabbed m into a hug and said 'sorry, I'm just really shocked... (like, duh... I suppose when he said 'let's see what happens' he didn't expect it to happen so soon! (took two months to fall)) He then swept me out to dinner and kept suddenly grinning and saying things like 'Do you think it'll be a boy or a girl?'
All in all, I'm happy with the way it went. his
inital reaction may not have been 'movie perfect' but once he regained his composure he was great. And continues to be great. He's picking up a doppler for me tomorrow as he wasn't with me last week when I heard the hb at my antenatal appointment... he wants to hear it