[jewelsgurl23]

hi

i just tried to introduce some new positions for the bedroom.

they are all that we can do while ttc.

anyways i sent them to his e-mail.

he looked at them and asked me if i sent those to him.

i said yes and he called them garbage.

so much for introducing new things into the bedroom.

i guess i can't do that again.

thanks ladies for your advice.

[Shalyn]

hmmmm sounds like he is in some kind of "funk." I am sorry he's being a butthead!!!

[Coley]

Yeah. Sounds like it's something more personal rather than him just being "bored".

I'm sorry that he is unwilling to discuss your sexual relationship openly. I hope things get better soon.

[Bayamount]

hmmm..ok try this
do you know how to get him arroused? just a little.... and instead of emailing about the new stuff, just kinda.... do it! or find a way to introduce them in a sexy conversation? if its in an email out of the blue, he might be less open than if he's already into it?

[CandaceDianne]

Originally Posted by Bayamount

hmmm..ok try this
do you know how to get him arroused? just a little.... and instead of emailing about the new stuff, just kinda.... do it! or find a way to introduce them in a sexy conversation? if its in an email out of the blue, he might be less open than if he's already into it?

I agree! Just do it, dont really give him a real option. I text DH sometimes throughout the day and tell him I am in the mood, just to get him turned on or so he has some anticipation by the time he gets home. GL and I am sorry he is in a funk. After you O, I would just give him space intimately (i.e. sex). KUP!

I know what you mean by trying to get him into sex more. Whatever you do try not to mention bd or ttc while approaching him to have sex. My dh wants a baby so bad also, however he asked me that everytime we go to bd, not to mention ttc because it completely turns him off for some reason. I respect that and even though I'm thinking about, he doesn't have to be. Plus I will do things I know he likes to get him aroused and really into it. Asking to have sex or just doing it. best of luck

[Admin-pattyandthemoos]

Well that wasn't very nice. I would have my feeling hurt if dh acted like that to me.

((HUGS)))