[Bayamount]

its silly really but, ive got a question about sex and would like many different opinion, but i dont want to offend anyone... may i?

[Arya]

Shoot! What I've learned here is that there are no embarrassing questions. Anything goes.

[kbpeanut]

Anything goes on these boards!!! Let's have it!

[Bayamount]

ok... well here it goes.
ive been struggling with this for years actually.
dh never asks, but i knoooooooow it would reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally please him for me to.. swallow. never been able to... scared i gues.. maybe. i dunno... how do i ... is it... yucky? or... well... ok help me out here....

[kbpeanut]

Personally, I am not a fan. It's icky to me. I think all guys would like it, though :O

Perhaps you could try *almost* doing it...just let a little get in there? Test the waters, so to speak?

[Tammyms]

I refuse to swallow or even get it in my mouth! I gag, and unless he wants me gagging and biting in the process... no go! I think it's a personal choice and it's up to you. If you can handle it try it, everyone tastes different, just like all women have a different smell or taste, some aren't so bad and some are worse. Either way, KUP on what you do!

[jensma]

i don't like it either, but i still do it on occasion...but its a rare occasion.

[Arya]

I've never even attempted to do it, it weirds me out DF has never even asked me, because he knows my feelings on it and sometimes I feel a little guilty but it's just icky to me. But if you have the will to try it, you should do baby steps or something. Hope everyone else is of better help

[Bayamount]

hmmm seams there are more women like me than i thought! thought i was alone in finding it icky or not daring and stuff

[DeepSouthMommy]

There are never questions that are too personal or embarrassing here. And honestly, if it's something that bothers someone, they should (and likely will) stop reading it and just ignore anything else that's said. So that being said...

It's icky, yes. I've only ever swallowed once and that was about 10 times too many. I've let DH finish in my mouth a couple of times, but again, about 10 times too many. It tastes NASTY. Eww, I'm getting gaggy just thinking about it!!

I will do that "chore" for DH (not even close to the ballpark as nearly often as he would like though LOL) but he never gets to finish that way anymore. I told him he has his choice, he can finish by having sex with me or by my puking all over him.

He chose sex.

[Mod-LilSunshine]

I prefer not to as well.

[sunnyc212]

Yeah, not so much here too. Besides, when TTC, it's a bit of a waste of sperm!! LOL! There are waaaaaayyyyyy more women that say no then who do it. It just feels like the world is the opposite.

[Shalyn]

I have NEVER swallowed. I don't mind giving a blow job but I do NOT want that crap in my mouth. Yuck makes me gag just thinking about it. See you're not different than a lot of us!

[CandaceDianne]

I am gagging to just thinking about swallowing! I have done it on a SUPER rare occassion, I think it was really just when we were dating.....I think its gross. If he really wants you to, try it once. Worse case, just have a chacer next to the bed.

[tchelle]

I used to swallow, but tried not swallowing once and BF didn't seem to mind so I stopped swallowing . Like everyone else said, the taste is awful (when I did swallow, I just did it because that seemed like the fastest way to get it out of my mouth) plus suddenly having all that stuff in my mouth makes me gag. So now I take him to the brink, then just finish with my hands so it doesn't even get in my mouth. Much better.

I think the funny thing with BF is, it's okay for me to give him a BJ, but he absolutely will not kiss me until after I've brushed my teeth because of what I had in my mouth.

[AmandaEliz]

I have swallowed... mainly when we were much younger & being sneaky (no evidence) LOL! Now that we have our own bed & house, I feel absolutely no need to swallow. DH has never complained... I guess he figures no swallow is better than no BJ EVER.

[Coley]

LOL!! We are seriously too much! I love all of you!! LOL! LOL!!

I have swallowed but prefer not to for a number of reasons.

1. I've always thought "Man Gravy" smells like Clorox. Clorox is not meant to be eaten! So anything that smells like Clorox... yeah, I'll pass.

2. It's thick and gross.

3. I can never anticipate exactly when it's going to "shoot out", so it hits the back of my throat which startles me and makes me gag.

DH used to ask for it and I would do it every now and then... but he knows I don't like it so he's given over on that. I struggle with the whole blow job thing anyway because I have a small jaw and he's a bit... um... thick. HA HA!!!

[DeepSouthMommy]

Originally Posted by tchelle

I think the funny thing with BF is, it's okay for me to give him a BJ, but he absolutely will not kiss me until after I've brushed my teeth because of what I had in my mouth.

My DH is the same way! I'm like, "Dude, it came from you and you think it's ok for it to be in my mouth, but you won't kiss me after??" Yet another reason/excuse not to go there. LOL

[CandaceDianne]

this convo reminds me of 'Forgetting Sarah Marshall' (love that movie)....'Let's just say if God were a city planner, He would not put a sewage system next to a park!' I love it!

[DeepSouthMommy]

Robin Williams in "Man of the Year" ~ "People say Intelligent Design, we must teach Intelligent Design. Look at the human body, is that intelligent? You have a waste processing plant next to a recreation area."