I know we always get down, but do you ever feel like this is THE ONE?

Tammyms · #1 October 8th, 2009, 05:48 PM

I don't know why, but for once, I feel good about this cycle! I have no reason to, it's nothing to do with chart or temps, I just feel positive and and determined that this will be the ONE!

Any of you ever feel that way before? Kind of nice to have a good feeling for a change even if it doesn't turn out to be the one

AngelM82 · #2 October 8th, 2009, 06:09 PM

I felt the exact same way this last cycle! I don't know why either, maybe because I felt more empowered by starting to chart temps and the fact that I actually detected an O. But I felt deep down like this might really be it and DH became obsessed with my temps because he was convinced they meant that this was it, too.

Keep the faith though, maybe this really will be it! You sure have a good start with the BDing so far, hope you get your + OPK soon and then on to your TWW!!

jensma · #3 October 8th, 2009, 08:50 PM

i try not to feel that way anymore b/c i don't like to be let down!! But i will say the month i got pregnant i had no clue. The most surprised i could have been!

AngelM82 · #4 October 9th, 2009, 06:28 AM

I definately try not to have any hopes up and I will be the last person to try and anylize "symptoms" even while DH does it for me! So this whole last cycle I kept saying, "I dont know babe, we'll have to see.. That could be PG or just for my period so we just have to wait.. bla bla bla" All the while lying to myself I guess because I just felt like I was being good but I would take my test after waiting the appropriate waiting time like a good girl and would be "shocked" by my BFP! lol

My last BFP that ended in miscarriage I did this so long that I really did start to feel the nausea and running to the bathroom but still was oblivious to it. I sat in utter shock with my mouth hung open when I saw that PG on the test. I guess I have been trying to recreate this situation but unfortunately I doubt I can do that, regardless of what i say this time around, I still do obsess on the inside.. hehe

Admin-pattyandthemoos · #5 October 9th, 2009, 06:34 AM

I hope I don't sound like a totally negative Nellie but I was just about to post a thread titled why am I such a pessimist. I don't have a good feeling about this cycle. I had one month a few cycles back where I posted I feel so incredibly pregnant and had a really good feeling but I wasn't. I think that is what has killed my optimism. I really thought I was going to feel more optimistic taking the Clomid but I don't. I may just be having a bad day but I am not feeling it this cycle.

AlanaIris · #6 October 9th, 2009, 07:23 AM

I am really feeling like this is our cycle...as long as I didn't O on CD10 like FF says! lol. I don't think I did though. It's our first cycle TTC after our loss, and I've heard that you're more fertile for a few months after m/c. We also added a bunch of new stuff into the mix like soy isoflavones, mucinex (both DH and I are taking it), I got some preseed, and I started DH on vitamins to help his swimmers.

jenine · #7 October 9th, 2009, 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by pattyandthemoos

I don't have a good feeling about this cycle.

Patti - your chart is looking good! That is some slope. Positive Thoughts! (where is the zen meditation smiley?!

)

I definitely had a suspicion on the month I did get pregnant, but I didn't really believe it. Now I don't know what to think. I'm trying to stay out of the speculation game for my chances! But I have fun doing with the rest of you

Admin-pattyandthemoos · #8 October 9th, 2009, 07:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jenine

Patti - your chart is looking good! That is some slope. Positive Thoughts! (where is the zen meditation smiley?!

)

I definitely had a suspicion on the month I did get pregnant, but I didn't really believe it. Now I don't know what to think. I'm trying to stay out of the speculation game for my chances! But I have fun doing with the rest of you

You know my chart looks great. My temp this morning was probably the highest post o temp I remember having. If I weren't taking the Clomid I would think it was a great sign but I just keep thinking the Clomid is why my chart looks different. I kind of feel some preggie symptoms but I don't want to pay attention to them.

Coley · #9 October 9th, 2009, 07:43 AM

Patty - Your chart is looking FAB!! I'm sooo diggin' your temp incline!!

I try hard not to get too worked up or optimistic because I hate the let down as well. It's hard not to wonder what each thing you feel is, ya know? If I feel something and mention it to Danny, he's good for saying "Why is that?" or "What's that about?" HA HA! My response is usually "I don't know." I always try not to assign any particular meaning to it, ya know?

I'm gonna try really hard this cycle to not read into anything. Although, I am feeling pretty good considering I had 2 SUPER dark OPKs yesterday as well as some really strong O pains. Keeping my fingers crossed!!

Tammyms · #10 October 9th, 2009, 06:00 PM

Patty, I'm so sorry you're in a blah mood about this cycle!

See, my thing is I haven't even o'd so I'm not analyzing anything, just a good feeling inside and no idea why. Of course, I could be playing mind games with myself thinking that everytime I think it won't happen it doesn't, so maybe if I really believe it will happen, it will!

My charts are never the same so I never know if anything for me means things are going well or what... but that's ok, doc appt for my physical is in 12 days and I'm praying she will be willing to help me

CandaceDianne · #11 October 9th, 2009, 06:09 PM

Tammy, I hope that great feeling brings you your BFP!!!!!

jensma · #12 October 9th, 2009, 06:31 PM

I had a good feeling about my next cycle the month I got pregnant. I was so distracted waiting for the next month that I was oblivious to the fact that i was pregnant!! After I found out it all added up but it was a nice distraction to have!