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October 21st, 2009, 06:13 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: East Falls, Pennsylvania
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So... today marks the beginning of 8 months of us trying very hard to do what so many people do by accident. Sigh.
I'm crampy. I'm frustrated. I'm sad. I'm aggravated. I'm disappointed.
I cried a little this morning, but I'm even starting to feel as if I've run out of tears. How freakin' sad is that?
Anyway... I know lots of you will suggest going to the doctor and all that... and I will. But right now I need to just not think about any of this. I need to not hear about BFPs and have to feign happiness. I need to step back and just give myself some time to decompress.
I'm sure I'll bounce back in a few days. No one need worry about me... I just need some space. So while I love you all and truly hope your cycles turn out better than mine, please forgive me for not being the best cheerleader right now.
I've just made a huge pot of my own Holiday Blend coffee (since I don't have to care about what I put in my body right now).
So I'm going to curl up on the sofa, turn on the 360 and watch some of the scary movies I put in my Netflix streaming queue.
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October 21st, 2009, 06:22 AM
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Lilyan's Mommy
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October 21st, 2009, 06:26 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2009
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I'm so sorry, Nikki. Your plan sounds like a good one. Add a nice cup of tea.
We will be here when you need to talk
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October 21st, 2009, 06:28 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh Nikki that completely stinks and I'm sorry. I've been in your shoes so I totally understand. We went through hell and back to have my DS. You are entitled to feel down and to take some time for yourself. I'm sure everyone here understands. There are enough cheerleaders here on the board for one or a few of us to have a down day every now and then. Hang in there.
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October 21st, 2009, 06:41 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: California
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October 21st, 2009, 07:32 AM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Calgary, Alberta Canada
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Don't worry hun we've all been there. Go and sit on your couch and just veg. Big hugs to you.
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October 21st, 2009, 08:23 AM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: USA
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I'm so sorry Nikki. I know the feeling. Enjoy some time to destress and not think about TTC. 
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"Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." - Galatians 6:9
TTC on our own for over 2 years
Dx with Severe MFI- Blood work shows no Microdeletion and no CF mutations
Ultrasound scheduled 3/22- DONE! Everything looks normal, other than some cysts on my right ovary.
HSG scheduled 4/14- DONE! Tubes are clear!! 
On BCP until our IVF w/ICSI scheduled for August!!! 
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October 21st, 2009, 08:33 AM
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Proud Co-Host of TTC #1
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Nikki - I'm right there with ya...enjoy your coffee, and a few days "off"....thinking about you today!
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October 21st, 2009, 08:56 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Goose Creek, SC
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I am sorry Nikki.
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October 21st, 2009, 09:23 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Born 12/30/11 and absolutely perfect! 
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October 21st, 2009, 09:25 AM
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Cara, Mom to two girls
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I'm so sorry! It is so hard to try for so long and to see so many new people come and go. (((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))
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October 21st, 2009, 10:58 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Southern Iowa
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I'm sorry.
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October 21st, 2009, 11:06 AM
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Administrator
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((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))) Nikki. I just went through a lot of these feelings myself. The end of your cycle is really tough. I am like you I bounce back from it but when I am down sometimes I just need to be by myself.
Please know that you have a lot of girls here that are YOUR cheerleader and we don't expect you to always be ours. I am so sorry that you are feeling so down.
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October 21st, 2009, 11:30 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry you're feeling down. I think we've all been there, so we understand.
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October 21st, 2009, 12:11 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Spring Hill, TN
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aww hun, I remember being in your shoes so many times, but keep your head up!!! It WILL happen, I know it seems impossible.. I felt the same way last month, but here I am.. a BFP after NOTHING for 11 straight months
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