[Admin-pattyandthemoos]

Make it easier or harder for you to get bding out of him?

[CandaceDianne]

It didnt really matter, he is always ready to go!

[jensma]

idk...i'd say easier bc he knows he has to do his part.

[Mousewife]

Much, much easier. My hubby is insanely busy with work, and if we can cluster our BD-ing to around my O-date, so much the better. He needs to plan sex and have it scheduled into his mental-day-timer.

He came home Friday night and I tried to jump him, only to be rejected because his father was on his way over to help draw up plans for finishing our basement (and it's a really good thing his father was on his way and didn't actually come home with him). He has the link to my chart, and while he totally doesn't understand everything, he knows a dip followed by a sustained rise is a good thing, and we need to have sex before or on the day of the dip, and as much sex as possible around that dip.

[Tammyms]

I've always told him I will keep him out of it... unless he's not in the mood then I will demand he make a deposit! and he told me never to keep it from him if that's the case so we don't miss our chance, not romantic but at least he'll play my game with me So, easier I guess!

[DeepSouthMommy]

OMG, it's SO much easier right now! I don't know what snapped into (or out of ) place in his brain, but since last month he's...literally...right on top of things!

[Arya]

When DF and I were together this summer, all I could talk about was my O day and my temps! He went along with it, but as I found out few weeks ago, he didn't think that it was necessary, that we should just do it and if it happens it happens. I guess he didn't want us preoccupied with charting, but he never said anything. Then when I found out, I explained how it's good for me to chart because I have irregular cycles, and that it gives me an idea of when it's the best time to BD. It doesn't help anything if we BD when I'm not ovulating or if we miss the O day. He understands that now, but I think I will not talk too much about it when we start trying again in January. I'll take my temp in the morning, check my CM, but I'll try to relax more about it and not talk about it nonstop hehe. But to answer your question (after I went on a tangent lol) he's never turned me down yet! So I'd say it doestn' matter

[AlanaIris]

It doesn't really matter. But if I say we "need" to, he usually knows it's around O time, so it's a little easier if he's too tired.

[Mod-LilSunshine]

Originally Posted by CandaceDianne

It didnt really matter, he is always ready to go!