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You ladies are the only ones I can turn to............I belong to a message board where we have all been together since we were pregnant w/ our May 2006 babies and I have been TTC for months yet all of the other ladies who have been TTC get pregnant as soon as they go off of bcp. It's not that I'm not happy for them, I'm just so sad it is taking us longer. I know it really isn't even THAT long, or as long as some people have to go, but another one announced she was pg today and I just started bawling.
I just had to get that out..............just need some hugs and my DH is out of town so I can't get any from him. Guess I should just be thankful for the 2 beautiful children I have and give them extra hugs.
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Proud Mommy to:
Alexis 11-03
Madelyn 5-06
Jackson born August 2010
I know exactly how you're feeling. I'm only just now poking my head back out after needing a break because I was feeling like this isn't gonna happen... so I can totally relate.
I think your feelings are natural. I got really down when all my friends were getting pregnant. I was still very happy for them but then it made me feel all the more down about myself. I think it is just that it makes you realize that it should be easier.
I hope you start feeling better. You have a lot of friends here to pick you up when you are feeling down.
BIG hugs to you. I can totally relate. Everyone around me is pregnant...and like Patty said, I'm very happy for them, but not happy for myself. It's so hard to feel like that.
At the risk of sounding like a copy cat, I know exactly how you feel!
Right now, at least 5 of my friends/acquaintances are pregnant! I get so weary of hearing the announcements after awhile, though I really am happy for them. Hang in there, we will have our turn!
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"Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." - Galatians 6:9
TTC on our own for over 2 years
Dx with Severe MFI- Blood work shows no Microdeletion and no CF mutations
Ultrasound scheduled 3/22- DONE! Everything looks normal, other than some cysts on my right ovary.
HSG scheduled 4/14- DONE! Tubes are clear!!
On BCP until our IVF w/ICSI scheduled for August!!!
Aww! I know how you feel. I backed off from posting here for a bit because there were SO many girls getting their BFPs and lots of them had been around and trying for less time than me. And even though I am genuinely happy for them, it was getting hard to see one positive test after another.
I'm going to send you a ton of baby dust in hopes that you get your own BFP VERY, VERY SOON!!
Michelle - Right back at ya!!!!!! See I feel sorry for myself but I should realize there are people who are way worse off - You deserve your very own too!!!!
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Proud Mommy to:
Alexis 11-03
Madelyn 5-06
Jackson born August 2010