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January 11th, 2010, 06:04 AM
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my sixth cycle TTC is almost over... 6 whole months of oh i want a baby only to be disappointed every cycle. I know there are so many other people who have tried for longer and dont have the bundles of joy that i do, so i feel selfish even bringing this up. I never had to TTC very hard with my other kids (2 months was the max) so to start off with i was thinking, ok, its someone elses turn, and was actually very patient. I just have this feeling that i will never be pregnant again.
Im not sure if i will be charting next month, since some of my cycle will be in Australia and some will be in America and the time change is too hard to figure out to get accurate temps.
I think i might make a follow up appointment with my OB today for this week hopefully. He mentioned Clomid a few months back, and i was too interested then, but he should have some other options that we can discuss.
OK... pitty party over!
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January 11th, 2010, 08:56 AM
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I kinda know how you feel...it took us 6 months and 7 cycles to conceive #1, but I always feel bad whining about it b/c in the grand scheme of things 6 months isn't that long...and I have a beautiful son to show for it...and now here I am wanting another! (Actually I want 4 or 5 more eventually). This is only our 2nd cycle really TTC #2, but we would've liked to try sooner but there was no point b/c AF hadn't returned. I'm already a little discouraged, b/c I'd love to just be able to get pregnant right away just once..but at the same time I feel bad complaining b/c so many others have been trying for so long...
Don't give up hope! Hopefully your OB will have some insight or advice!
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January 11th, 2010, 04:01 PM
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I hear ya. I'm on cycle # 7 (and like you said...in the scheme of things...that's not nearly as long as so many other people have gone through) but with my ds it took us two months (one month of sorta trying, and one of really trying) so I guess I thought this time would be "easy" too. I get so torn having the "feeling sorry for myself" type of feelings knowing that I am so very fortunate to have my ds.
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January 12th, 2010, 06:40 AM
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I'm on Cycle 11 myself... so I'm hoping we ALL get BFP's REALLY REALLY soon!!
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January 12th, 2010, 11:53 AM
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I understand. I had friends who got pregnant by accident earlier last year and have since had their babies while we've been trying. Even though I already have a little one too, it's still hard when it's something that you want so badly.
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