[AngelM82]

Hello all, I just wanted to stop by and say hello to everyone and I sure do hope that things have been going well. I got my BFP a little over 3 weeks ago and have been absolutely thrilled and thought that maybe 2010 was going to finally going to be our year. Unfortunately, this pregnancy may not work out though and I am hoping to come back to charting soon. I have cried as much as I can at this point and have just let myself feel what I am going to and while I know I have a lot more emotions yet to come if this is really how it will play out. But we can't let this beat us and we know our heart is still waiting to love a little bean that will be able to stick. So anyway, here is a link to what my situation is currently if your interested in reading.

http://www.justmommies.com/forums/f1...ional-sac.html

Anyway, I have not begun to miscarry and while I pray the doctors may be wrong I feel like I need to realistic. I was wondering from any of you ladies in here who have experienced loss, how long after the miscarriage did you start trying again? I plan to let it happen naturally and avoid a D&C if possible so after my body is finished doing what it needs to, I would like to start charting again.

Also, I was also curious... This will be my second loss in a row and wonder if this would be considered reoccurring miscarriage and if there were any ideas into how to determine what is causing it. My doctor already made it quite clear that he won't help me find out why it's happening and just keeps comparing me to a pack of seeds you plant in a garden and says that not all the seeds grow. But i feel like after two times in a row, a person deserved to know if there is something preventing them from maintaining a pregnancy.

Thanks in advance and again, hope all is well and I hope there were many BFP's since I was last hear!

[wishfulgal]

I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. I read your post from the DDC and I'm sorry your doctor is not more helpful I also have been having longer cycles and I've been worried that when I do get pregnant my due date will be off like yours, b/c doctors put sooo much faith in that little due date wheel based off of ovulating on CD14...

I don't have any experience with m/c, but I think I would definitely be looking for another doctor if at all possible. I think after 2 losses, I can definitely understand wanting to look into the cause. From what I've heard/read you can start charting right away, but it may take your body awhile to get back into cycling normally.
I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers and I do hope that somehow your doctor is wrong and everything is fine after all.

[AngelM82]

Thank you so much! Yes the long cycles are why I am just blown away that doctors don't take anything into consideration than the LMP. I mean this particular cycle was actually my shortest one in ages and I acually O'ed roughly 13 days earlier than I usually do! I O'ed on CD 23 while the past couple months I charted I didn't O time CD 36 or 37!! Imagine what the doc would say if I got a BFP for those cycles! How frustrating...

Thanks again and baby dust to you!

[LifesGood]

First I am really sorry this is happeneing and I hope that you find out either way very soon. I would try to get another US from someone else and another opinion.

In the mean time I think it is so stupid that they always go by lmp. When I got pregnant with my DS I OD on cd 9 and they were thinking I was 8 weeks when I was 10. and I got an earfull from the docs at the high risk clinic saying they didnt want to see me this early. The US tech believed me and happily agreed that I had a 10 week old bean and they finally changed my date

Good luck hun