[Babybear4]

I am 11 DPO and got a BFN this morning. I am sure I am out, now I just have to wait for AF to get here so I can relax. I wish my temp would have just dropped way down this morning.

I don't know that I am cut out for this whole charting thing. I am going to do it for one more cycle, but if it stresses me out next cycle like it has this cycle, I may just stop doing it and let things happen how they will. I let myself get way too excited about good looking temps, knowing that good temps don't really mean anything and now I am just disappointed. Such is life, I guess.

[Mod-LilSunshine]

11 dpo could be too early. I didn't get a bfp until 14 dpo when I was pregnant last time.

Charting can be stressful. I like being "in the know" about when I've O'd, and I like having the documentation for my OB and to compare cycles, but it can become overwhelming for sure.

[Babybear4]

Yeah, you're right, I could be too early. I just don't have *that* feeling, KWIM? But, that could be because I don't want to set myself up for disappointment. Everytime I've tested, I've felt like it's got to be wrong, but I guess only time will tell.

I, too, like being in the know, but I just wish that a chart could just say "yes, you are absolutely pregnant, ignore what the tests say" or, "Hey! you're not pregnant, stop stressing."

[Mod-LilSunshine]

Originally Posted by Babybear4

Yeah, you're right, I could be too early. I just don't have *that* feeling, KWIM? But, that could be because I don't want to set myself up for disappointment. Everytime I've tested, I've felt like it's got to be wrong, but I guess only time will tell.

I, too, like being in the know, but I just wish that a chart could just say "yes, you are absolutely pregnant, ignore what the tests say" or, "Hey! you're not pregnant, stop stressing."

Wouldn't that be great?!? I wish that's how it worked!