[Mod-LilSunshine]

Who do you talk to about TTC, other than your friends on JM? Do you talk about it often, or are you pretty private about your ttc journey?

[Christina33]

Most of the people I know right now know about my loss & that I've been ttc since that time. I don't make a great BIG deal about it, but I don't keep it a secret. Most people I know don't really understand how very hard my ectopic loss was on me - both mentally & physically - and they don't realize how hard I've been ttc. I think most of the people I know don't realize half of the time that I really have been ttc all this time! Sometimes people say things to me like "You're not using ANY kind of birth control AT ALL?" I guess they don't know many people who've ttc this long

[laceymm888]

I talk to most of my friends about it but my mom is really the only family member who knows. I'm the type of person who can't keep my own secret for anything, especially when I'm excited about it so there's no way I could hold something like that in

[wishfulgal]

Only my sister knew when we were TTC #1 (it took about 6 months). Trying for #2, DH has been diagnosed with MFI and he is having surgery. Quite a few of our close friends/family know about it. Even if we hadn't told them, most people we know would have expected us to at very least be pregnant, if not have another baby, by now. We got tired of so many hints and questions about when #2 is coming along that we just decided to be open about it.