What Does All This Mean!?

foxfire_ga79 · #1 December 16th, 2010, 08:40 PM

My body is really throwing me for a loop this cycle. I don't chart my temp right now, because I'm still nursing my 1 y/o and don't get a reliable amount of sleep. But I keep tabs of my cervical mucous and position.
DH and I were kinda NTNP this month, but we only BD'd once. (Who has the time anymore? lol) It was on CD18 and I usually O on CD16ish. I checked my cervix the next day and it was really high up in there, and very soft. For the most part since then it's stayed pretty high but has gotten firmer. A few time it has come down slightly, and twice it was very low. As in, I didn't even have to go past the 2nd knuckle of my left finger before I could touch it. But for the most part it's staying pretty high.
My CM has varied from watery to creamy to sticky. No spotting, not even a hint of blood.
I have what feels like mittelschmertz (sp?) during my entire luteal phase even if I'm not pregnant, I think maybe the corpus lutem cyst gets kinda big or something for me. I don't know.
I'm having some "symptoms" that have gone along in my past pregnancies very early on before I knew was pregnant. I'm starting to have crazy very elaborate dreams, and now when I blow my nose (sorry TMI alert) it's a little bit bloody.
I'm having some cramps, but that could go either way. I'm back and forth between cranky and super happy, but that could be PMS or preggie also.
I never got morning sickness with my other pregnancies. I can't check for changes in my breasts because thanks to nursing they change every few hours lol.
But here's the thing, in the past 24 hours I've had 3 BFN's. They were FRER's. Today is CD 34. I HAVE had 35 day cycles before, but my cervix should be very low and hard by now but it's still high and hard. Or at least medium high. Not AS low as it should be if I'm expecting AF to come soon, and I have NEVER gone past 35 days and not been pregnant.
This would be my 4th AF since my cycles started back, all 3 were within reasonable time limits and surprisingly regular.

What should I make of this? I take medications that are pregnancy category D and X. If I am pregnant I must find out ASAP. Tomorrow will be day 35 and if AF doesn't come by Saturday I'll be officially freaking out.

I just don't know what to think or do about this situation. Help?

ShawnaCAN · #2 December 17th, 2010, 07:42 AM

It doesn't hurt to test in a few more days. If CM was present at the time you BD'd, sperm can live up to 5 days in your body. If you ovulated/conceived during the 5 days after BDing on CD18, then add 14DPO for accurate testing - perhaps the BFN's are because it's still a tad early. I would test again on CD 37. If it's a BFN, it's pretty unlikely that you're pregnant from BDing on CD18.

foxfire_ga79 · #3 December 17th, 2010, 11:09 PM

Yea it turned out to be a false alarm. I went to my doc today for a blood serum test that turned out negative. Then when I got home and went to the bathroom I saw that I'd started spotting. Jeez, I should have gone to the bathroom first.
I guess my body just isn't going to behave while I'm still BFing.

ShawnaCAN · #4 December 18th, 2010, 07:54 AM

If you haven't ovulated yet this cycle (very possible while BFing) - the spotting could be related to ovulation. Be sure to consider it potentially fertile!