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October 10th, 2006, 05:03 PM
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What does the man in your life think of charting? I think Jon thinks it is silly. He calls it my pipe. I am neurotic so I still take my temp sometimes, and when I do, Jon says "is that your pipe?"
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October 10th, 2006, 05:37 PM
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he doesn't give two HOOTS about it. i told him charting will help figure out when i'm ovulating so we have a better chance of making a child, and he said "okay hunny", and left it like that. last month i showed him how my charts were looking and he was like "that's nice" in a blah man tone. so whatever, i LIKE charting
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October 10th, 2006, 05:38 PM
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I laughed out loud when I read your post. My DH is really supportive. He asks me every day what my temp is and what it means. I don't think he really understands the process, though!
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October 10th, 2006, 05:41 PM
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Well, we use Natural Family Planning for trying to concieve and for trying to avoid - so charting is something we learned together before we got married. He understands it all very well because his job is to write down my observations at the end of the day.
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October 10th, 2006, 05:45 PM
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Well, he is interested, because he kept asking me if my temp went up the past few days.
But then today he said I was too obsessive.
So who knows!
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October 10th, 2006, 05:52 PM
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So far a mixed bag of responses!! Melissa-- I have tried to show my charts to Jon before too and he never seemed to interested either, so I feel your pain!
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October 10th, 2006, 06:16 PM
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Ooops, no idea how that happened. Double post.
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October 10th, 2006, 06:18 PM
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My DH is very supportive. He says it's a very "me" thing - I love data and charts and statistics so all this is very up my alley. He learned a long time ago to put up with my little quirks and obsessions. And since he wants a baby very badly, he'll do anything to help our chances! He makes a point to ask me how my chart is, to look it over and try to be supportive and helpful (even though I know he doesn't really get it, lol).
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October 10th, 2006, 06:23 PM
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Wow, that is great that your hubby is so supportive!! I can tell you like graphs! I saw the weight graph on your FF homepage. Very cool!

I forgot to tell you your dogs are very cute!!
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October 10th, 2006, 06:34 PM
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ShawnaCAN-- I just noticed that you are having your baby soon! I just wanted to say good luck!!!

SHANNONMVT-- guys can be fickle at times, can't they???

Sometimes I get double posts too. How does that happen???
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October 10th, 2006, 06:54 PM
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dh gets grouchy if I make a big deal about it. The other morning he was trying to hit the snooze button and I asked him to give me my thermometer by the clock. When I made a big deal he got sort of groucy about it. He doesn't get the whole timing thing. He just thinks oh well, take your temp later.

But other than that he is pretty cool about me charting.
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October 10th, 2006, 07:31 PM
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My DH is very supportive. He says it's a very "me" thing - I love data and charts and statistics so all this is very up my alley. He learned a long time ago to put up with my little quirks and obsessions. And since he wants a baby very badly, he'll do anything to help our chances! He makes a point to ask me how my chart is, to look it over and try to be supportive and helpful (even though I know he doesn't really get it, lol). [/b]

I read this post and just had to laugh because my DH says the same thing. It's a "me" thing...something that "I" would do!! Because, I too like charts and graphs to look at and use. He tries to understand but just lets me do "my thing".
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October 12th, 2006, 04:43 AM
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BRian is a weirdo lol, he thinks that my temp will tell me everything and anything...I try to explain some things to him and he understands some things but he thinks its like a cult thing LOL
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October 12th, 2006, 07:15 PM
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BRian is a weirdo lol, he thinks that my temp will tell me everything and anything...I try to explain some things to him and he understands some things but he thinks its like a cult thing LOL[/b]

LOL, the Charting Cult.
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