[lizm75]

Last night we did not BD because DH didn't want to. He was in a bad mood and stressed out all day yesterday and is starting out today the same. I'm really starting to wonder if TTC is too stressful for us and we should just stop. He got all mad this morning because he thinks the way we are doing this is so unatural. So I got pissed and said, "well it's not natural to wait till I'm 31 to have a baby." So now I'm the ***** whole. It is so upsetting to wait this long (we've been together for 11 years) to even try, and then it takes forever and totally stresses our marriage. I just want to cry because I am about to ovulate and my DH won't touch me. He has been in the worst mood for two days now and to make matters worse the $%*ing S/A results are taking FOREVER. I think he will feel more relaxed if we just get the ###### results and they are good.

I totally know where you are coming from. TTC is probably the biggest stressor DH and I have ever had on our marriage. I am SERIOUSLY hoping you get awesome S/A results back today because like you said, that would probably help your DH's mood. I am guessing he is more stressed over those results than he'd like to admit. HUGS to you!!! I really hope your DH comes around!!!!!

[diznynurse]

It's very stressful to ttc, unfortunately it consumes us and we only make love to ttc. Maybe you should make it romantic. Don't tell him you are Oing, light some candles, bubble bath, etc to set the mood. Even a glass of wine to relax you is okay. Does dh work at an office?? Maybe send him a boquet of balloons or something to make him smile. Good luck hun, and I hope things work out better tonight.

[sarahevans55]

Awww, I am so sorry sweetie. I hope he snapps out of it and starts being more understanding to your needs. *hugs*

[proudjmmom]

I am sorry to hear that. TTC is very stressful.....on everyone, even more so when it takes a long time! Hopefully he snaps out of it soon, before this cycle is out! Good Luck.....and hugs!