[Banned-melissafecher]

my husband just went bilistic (he punched his bookbag, then threw himself at the wall and fell on the floor in a seizure like fit) and then 10 minutes later he just got up, got dressed and stormed out of the house, got into his car and drove off... all without saying a word to me. i followed him to the front door and when he closed it i opened it and he slammed it shut and locked it. i watched him drive away. he doesn't have his cell phone with him so i can't even call him

he doesn't #%*$ care about how i feel about all this. yes, he's stressed about school, but who isn't. i remember being stressed about my finals at college but i got threw it. his actions affect the whole family, not just him. i #%*$ cried while laying in bed hoping he's get up and at least SAY SOMETHING to me. but nope, he just stormed off like a #%*$ 5 year old. only caring about himself

i want him to quit school, because i've just had it with the #%*$ stress and bad mood aura he brings home with him from work. i want to have a happy, normal marriage... cuz obviously we never had a normal marriage, since he worked two jobs since before dylan was born and barely saw dylan and i for almost 2 years because he just thought it was necessary to work two jobs when we could of made it by with one paycheck. i want to get pregnant this week (and obviously we all know we only get a few days a month to make a child and i've waited long enough to make another child). all of those things just seem so far out of reach and i've had it up to here with it. i've been putting my feelings aside to be there for my husband for far too long and it's just too much to deal with. i'm angry and upset all at the same time. i'm crying, but want to punch something so hard that my hand falls off

can you believe divorce entered my mind already? it's #%*$ pathetic, but it's true. steven is acting like my exboyfriend did when he went into his manic episodes, and i got out of that relationship for that reason. now i married someone who can't keep his cool and has to act like a complete nutcase, just because school is a little hard and he's having a hard time writing an essay for his final?

i just want to scream. i just want to get away. pack my ###### up and just disappear. nothing ever goes right for me and nothing goes the way i would of planned it out. i don't even know why i still bother trying..........

[sweetdreamer1]

oh hun..im soo sory to hear what u are going thru...can understand..really feel sorry for ya..but just try to hang in there hun..just give ur dh some space to adjust to his learning stuff...my dh is also doing his BBA eamx this december and he is all nervous and acts like a wacko sometimes... so i dont even mention the ttc thing for him these days..just coz i have taken clomid i bd'ed with him that too without really making him stress about it..i guess the older they are they get more scared and upset about exams and stuff...i guess it would be best for u to wait for some time till he finishes his finals to start ttc..coz with the stress he is going thru i believe its deffinitely gonna effect his spermies..so think about it...sorry if im trying tell u something that u dont wanna here...but this is just a small suggestion...from what i'm experiencing here...i guess u are going thru something similar,but a bit worse..
sorry hun..but jsut try to hang in there...
i'll be praying for u...and also for ur dh to pass his finals well....
good luck..

[proudjmmom]

I am sorry to hear you are going through ssuch an ordeal with DH. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

[mommy2madison]

Awww!! I'm so sorry ur feeling bad about everything!! I think things will get better!! MEN!!! Omgosh, you can't live with 'um, can't live without 'um!! But girl, I know how you feel!!! At least he took a little drive to calm himself down!! Maybe you should wait to TTC till he's done with what he's stressing about and you two can talk about it again. I think you'll feel a lot better when u can talk about it together. Or at least BD when he's up to it! Just don't mention TTC. Maybe you'll get preggo quicker without the stress anyways!! I wish you the best of luck with whatever you choose!!! I hope things with you an DH get better REAL soon!!!!

[Banned-melissafecher]

first off, not to sound mean or anything, but i've waited long enough to try to conceive a child.... he said this is our month to start trying and that's that. i'm selfish about this and i'm sorry, but i'm not getting any younger....

he came back from his drive and pretty much hugged, kissed and apologized to me. long story short, we're good now

BUT, this mroning i got me some baby dancing, so I'M in a better mood (because i think i am going to ovulate early this month). hopefully he'll be in a better mood as well so we can make a child this week....

[mommy2madison]

YAYAYAYAY! I'm glad everythings good!! I figured he just needed to cool off a while!! I really hope this is your month!! GOOD LUCK!!

[~Sandy~]

HUGS girl...I think we all get really angry at our husbands at som epoint....its a normal part of marriage...we cant be expected to get along every second of every day kwim,,,,but im glad it all worked out

[~Jess~]

Are you talking about ttc a lot? I think that is a huge turnoff for men (especially when you say "make a child" it sounds like work!). If he is already stressing about something else, then pressuring him to ttc is just gonna turn him off of it even more. I've found that men tend to respond better when they think something is their idea, lol.

Don't tell him when he has to bd, just talk sexy and act like you're really turned on and in the mood-you'll get much better results. If he isn't in the mood, don't pressure him or throw a fit about how "he promised it would be this month." This is only your first month trying and you may have several months of this. If you put too much emphasis on it, combined with his other stresses, he may just change his mind about ttc now and we all know that you don't want that! Besides, you don't want him to feel resentful towards you or towards the new baby because he felt forced into it.

I'm glad that you made up and he's calmed down now, but that's just my 0.02.