[Deyamemin]

We will offically TTC in December. My baby will be 1 year old then. That was a hard decision for me. I guess i will learn it by living it! Hopefully i can handle two young ones at the same time. Please give me some support.

I may not fall pregnant soon so it can put 2 years age gap between them..But we want to start TTC in case it can take while..I dont wanna ruin my chances.

I really like charting, now i set my alarm and wake up everymorning, it is becoming a habit!

What do you think about my chart? We bd` ed on O day with a protection.i think it is less likely happen.. also my temps are going down but it is cd14 and no signs of AF or pregnancy?

[flygirls2]

I'm right there with you on that. My little one just turned 13 months a couple days ago and we had been planning on TTC and having another when she is about 2 for a long time---but now that it is coming down to actually doing it---I have been freaking out. I think 90% likely we are going to. I'm just freaking out about having two little ones!

I'm pretty new to charting myself, but I think that the way your temperature is dropping on your chart means no pregnany, and AF is coming. It would mean your Progesterone levels are dropping.

CONGRATS and lots of luck to both of you! I am not sure I could do 2 younger kids, my DD is 5 yrs old. If we get pg anytime soon they will be 6 yrs apart which is fine for me!

[Deyamemin]

I'm right there with you on that. My little one just turned 13 months a couple days ago and we had been planning on TTC and having another when she is about 2 for a long time---but now that it is coming down to actually doing it---I have been freaking out. I think 90% likely we are going to. I'm just freaking out about having two little ones!

I'm pretty new to charting myself, but I think that the way your temperature is dropping on your chart means no pregnany, and AF is coming. It would mean your Progesterone levels are dropping.[/b]

Hey , That`d be perfect if we get pregnant same month! I read your post on FF, and i hope you get pregnant before your husband leaves. I am not in hurry, mine is here

CONGRATS and lots of luck to both of you! I am not sure I could do 2 younger kids, my DD is 5 yrs old. If we get pg anytime soon they will be 6 yrs apart which is fine for me![/b]

I understand that! That is a personal choice, i know it wont be easy but in my case, me and my sister 6 years apart, her and number #3 8 years, #3 and #4 11 years apart. Yes i have a 4 year old brother which i LOVE. But i also hated whole my life to be 6 year apart with my sister.We couldnet be very close b/c when i was a teenager she was kid. My mum regrets too..She recommends me closer age gaps..

I understand that! That is a personal choice, i know it wont be easy but in my case, me and my sister 6 years apart, her and number #3 8 years, #3 and #4 11 years apart. Yes i have a 4 year old brother which i LOVE. But i also hated whole my life to be 6 year apart with my sister.We couldnet be very close b/c when i was a teenager she was kid. My mum regrets too..She recommends me closer age gaps..[/b]

We stopped using protection when DD was 2 yrs old, but we wanted to make sure that we had a place we wanted to be at. Also Dh wanted to make sure he had a good job before we had another one. He has been a CO for a yr and half now which is when we really started to TTC. This is our 11 cycle after the miscarriage TTC, we tried for 6 mos before the miscarriage. I never thought it would take this long, but its ok. I have a sister who is 5 yrs older than me, we dont get along great. I have another sister who is a 1 and 1.2 yrs older, we get along a little better. And my brother is a yr and a half younger then me we dont get along at all. My sister kids are 7 yrs apart and get along great. I just think its based on you with the age kwim? My Dh has a little brother who is 8 yrs old, they are 17 yrs apart!

[Deyamemin]

Yeah could be! I love my sister a lot i mean she is my everthing but i wish we were closer in age..Anyways, yes i could take a while to conceive. So maybe my children would be at least 2 years apart.

[AndoriaC]

Just thought I'd add my two sense in on the age gap issue

My sister and I are 8 years apart, and even though she is only 16, we get along really well and are very close. So, age doesn't always have to be a factor in that.