OMG! I am so bummed , is this normal???

luvmygirls2006 · #1 November 6th, 2006, 09:44 AM

I am crying, i texted Dh and told him that I tested and it was a BFN and that I didnt want to do this anymore! I mean I want to but I just cant take the sadness. I feel like we failed or God is trying to tell us something. I mean we have 2 healthy, gorgeous girls...... WHY AM I SO SAD??? I am acting like I havent already been blessed...... gees, please forgive me.

A_Marine's_Wife · #2 November 6th, 2006, 10:53 AM

I wanted to Offer you some hugs i feel the same way some times. Some days i sit hear and wonder what i have done so wrong why God doesent think ill be a good mommy. I try to remind my self that he does things for a reasion Hang in their youll get that other baby yet. Hugs hope you get to feeling better soon

frogftsh · #3 November 6th, 2006, 04:37 PM

Awww hun,

We all get down some days, TTC is not an easy thing. We're here for you!

drewbears · #4 November 7th, 2006, 04:43 AM

I know how you feel! I totally do.

But it is still early as far as testing, so maybe, its not over till AF shows.

But as for the giving up and wanting to be done, I have BTDT. We have been TTC for almost a year now. The end of this month it will be a year.

We have had 4 m/c and I have also had never ending cycles where for months nothing happens.

And it seems everyone I know is getting pg. And those that have haven't tried, or only tried once! Its not fair!

But yet I already have 5 healthy beautiful kids. That is in the back of my mind. Even though we desire to have more blessings in our family. So why is it that if you only have 1 child its okay to get bummed about not having #2 on the way yet, but after that if you have more than 1 or 10 it doesn't give you the right to be upset or bummed??

(((((HUGS)))))))

I also want to add, I have questioned God too, are we being pushished? What have we done wrong?? I mean we said we would only have 4 kids, then we had #5 cuz we felt someone was missing and all through that pg I said I would NEVER do it again, I was done. Then God worked on our hearts and we feel we are suppose to have 1 or maybe 3 more, like we had this promise, and now nothing??

PM me if you want to talk.