[bargdill]

ok. so i know i need to be bd'ing but the kid doesn't go to sleep until after dh. i tried to get her to take a nap at the time he gets home from work, yesterday she wouldn't nap all day, then today she wakes up right when we are getting ready. well, i bet you guessed why i am up in the middle of the night. oh well hope i get a bfp soon cause dh is a pain to wake up. lol

[drewbears]

LOL We co-sleep and almost always have 2 kids in our bed. Our kids have set bedtimes though so we do have a few hours to oursevles before we got to sleep. but there are times that someone wakes early.

Could you let her watch TV while yall run and lock the door and do the deed?? Or wait till she falls asleep and then go to a different room.

Its hard when you have little ones, but you can be inventive. LOL

[diznynurse]

LOL we are in the same boat. My son is often in our bed. dh usually is up late sowe put DS in his bed after he falls asleep and we usually have a good hour before he comes in my bed again! lol

Can your daughter spend the night at your parents house sometime?

[bargdill]

thanks for the suggestions. we usually do leave the room once she goes to sleep, it is the getting her to sleep on time. she has always been a night owl and right now she has a cold so i am letting her nap be long if she needs it. she has asthma and everytime she gets a cold she ends up in the hospital. she has never stayed anywhere else. when she was younger i would actually try to get people to take her but nobody would, she was such a fussy baby, she would love to stay at grandma's now, i'll have to mention that. i am still nursing her but she has finally started going all night without waking up to nurse, i was hoping that would shorten my cycle but it doesn't seem to be working.

[bravojuliet]

LOL, I just had a flashback to when my middle was younger! We co-sleep as well, but he stayed in our bed the longest.. Still comes in a lot of nights at 5! When he would fall asleep we would run out to the livingroom and grab our "sex blanket"! Gotta do what ya gotta do!! I hope you can find the time! And good for you for still nursing!!

[drewbears]

LOL, I just had a flashback to when my middle was younger! We co-sleep as well, but he stayed in our bed the longest.. Still comes in a lot of nights at 5! When he would fall asleep we would run out to the livingroom and grab our "sex blanket"! Gotta do what ya gotta do!! I hope you can find the time! And good for you for still nursing!![/b]

LOL sex blanket!!!! We has a "love blanket"

Hee hee hee.

[bargdill]

that is hilarious, we also have one of those. i can't even remember what it is like to bd in bed. lol

[bravojuliet]

That is so funny, glad to know I am in good company!!!