[drewbears]

I knew I shouldn't have told yet. I knew I should have waited till I was like 20 DPO and I had gotten REALLY dark strong +s!

Its a good thing I haven't told DH yet.

This mornings test was so so so so so faint. Even ligher than the one I did yesterday a 4pm!!!!

This cannot happen again.

I am still going for my blood test this morning, but I am afraid its useless....

This is how it has happened everytime before. I get a faint +, I get excited..... but I hadn't told people cuz I knew to wait.... then a few days later the tests get lighter and soon are BFN and then I start bleeding.

I don't know what to do!!!!

(sorry for the cross posting)

[diznynurse]

((((HUGE HUGS))) You're temp is still way up.....try and stay positive....a line is still a line....are u on progesterone? When u go today see if you can get a script for progesterone if you aren't on it yet. Sendingyou lots of sticky dust

[alexa]

Don't feel like you should have kept it to yourself. It is such a stressful journey and wave of emotions that you shouldn't have to go through it alone. That is what this board is for, support. No matter what happens everyone is here for you.

I agree that your temp is still way up there and it's good that you are going to your doctor right away. If you are not on progesterone then maybe that is all you need to help support the baby. If your doctor knows about your history of miscarriage, he/she will probably recommend the progesterone to you.

Remember how convinced you werer that AF was coming and then you got a BFP instead. Well, you just never know so try and stay positive and express your concerns to your doctor.

[Mari13007]

Jenn, the same thing happened to me so please try to stay calm. I kept testing to see if the lines were getting darker and I had one day were the line was lighter than the previous day and I panicked. All tests have different amount of dye in them and can show variations in intensity of color, so for now, a line is a line. Also depending on how much fluids you consumed, its possible to have a light fmu hpt compared to an afternoon test. See your dr. immediately to have blood work drawn and have them give you a script for progesterone if you have had a history of low levels in the past. The progesterone is not a 100% guarantee but at least you are better off playing it safe then sorry, kwim. Your temp is still up so that is a positive sign. Praying that this is your sticky one and that everything will turn out just fine. God Bless ((Hugs)) Marilyn

[KittyMom]

Do not feel guilty for telling so soon! This journey is far too difficult as it is never mind trying to bottle everything inside.

But I agree with the other ladies...your temp is still UP and looking good. We will be anxiously awaiting to hear how it goes at your doctor's today.

[Spotis]

to what everyone else has said. A line is a line. Lots of hugs and keep us posted.

[~:Tracy:~]

Sorry if I am butting in, but when I was trying for my little boy I had these exact same problems that you are talking about, I would get a faint + then over the next few days it would get lighter and then be a BFN. It wasn't until I fell preg with DS that the docs finally listened and ran a couple of tests. As it turned out I had ACL - anti cadiolipin antibodies that cause me to be susceptable to clots, one of the problems that this causes is early miscarriage becuase the egg cannot properly implant into the uterus. To fix the problem all I needed to take was low dose aspsirin to thin my blood out enough to enable implantation. I hope this info is relevant and helpful.
Tracy