[Banned-CarlyB]

okay... I have been told over and over that I am not "o"ing...... but what i want to know is... what exactly is my chart supposed to be showing if i did "O" and how could i have all the fertile signs and not actually "O" so to say?

[TeresaSuperMama]

I have to agree. It doesn't look like you are Oing to me either. If you were Oing instead of your chart going up and down. It would go up after O and not come back down like it has been. I have a few questions since you have three kids already I am guessing that this is a recent thing not Oing. Ok, have you taken birth control? Sometimes that (especially depoprovera) can mess up your cycle for quite a while. Did you breastfeed your last one? If so, how long ago did you wean. Did you have regular cycles and ovulate regularly with your other kids?

Teresa

[Banned-CarlyB]

Ok, have you taken birth control? Sometimes that (especially depoprovera) can mess up your cycle for quite a while. Did you breastfeed your last one? If so, how long ago did you wean. Did you have regular cycles and ovulate regularly with your other kids?[/b]

No BC since before David.. and I have had him and one MC since then. I didn't BF him.... and I guess my cycles were regular with them..... every 28 days i had AF

[VIGETTE]

Maybe your body tries to O but never atually follows through. Thats why you get the signs and all????? I can imagine how frustrating that is!!!!!!

[~Jess~]

The signs (cp, cm, etc) can mean that your body is gearing up to o, but it doesn't necessarily mean that you are o'ing. Only the temperature shift can confirm o and I honestly don't see a clear biphasic pattern on any of your charts except Aug '06. If I were you, I would print out all of your charts and take them to your dr.

[TeresaSuperMama]

The signs (cp, cm, etc) can mean that your body is gearing up to o, but it doesn't necessarily mean that you are o'ing. Only the temperature shift can confirm o and I honestly don't see a clear biphasic pattern on any of your charts except Aug '06. If I were you, I would print out all of your charts and take them to your dr.[/b]

[Banned-CarlyB]

well this really sucks! I was really hoping there was help. DH said we are going to do this on our own or not at all.... So Maybe i am just not ment to have anymore babies!

[~Jess~]

well this really sucks! I was really hoping there was help. DH said we are going to do this on our own or not at all.... So Maybe i am just not ment to have anymore babies![/b]

Let your dr. decide whether you can do it on your own or not. Do you have insurance? Maybe it would cover clomid for ya. If dh is on board with having another baby, then I don't think it would be wrong of you to just take the clomid without telling him.

ETA: I think there are natural routes that you could explore too: soy, green tea, etc. I'm sure there are some ladies on here who could help you out.

[heathernoel]

ITA...not to mention that having a dr. look at your temps and patterns doesn't mean that you aren't doing it by yourselves...Good Lord.