[inlove96]

I am on day 13 of my 28 day cycle. I have been using OPKs and was negative the past 2 days. I am waiting til 2 pm today to test again. DH and I have BD'd 2 times this week. And last night was the last time. My temp was leveled off on days 11, and 12. And this morning it dipped by .2. What does that mean??? What is the chance that I will O tomorrow? I will keep using the tests, but am getting nervous. Also, does having an orgasm increase your chance of getting pregnant??

[Natorock]

Well first about the organsm,

I've heard (so not necessarily not gospel truth) that when you organsm you cervix actually dips down and contracts almost sucking up the sperm. if that makes sence to you. I've heard that if you don't orgasm during DTD, you should prop you hips up on a pillow or on his thigh and stimulate the outside until you climax. Not letting anything drip out till you do.

And as far as your O date...seriously, I know it's really hard because I'm getting tense about it too, but you really should just relax and let it happen. as long as you keep DTD you'll be fine! And shoud you miss it, you can try again next month.


I know you're probably like yeah whatever...but if you relax it will help you to not delay the O date. If you stress about it, you could be delaying it.

GOOD LUCK! And happy BDing!

[inlove96]

Ok thanks. I do agree.

[diznynurse]

It could be possible that you are Oing today with that dip, but let's see what your temp oes tomorrow. The more you stress the later you may O, so try not to stress, just bd! Easier said than done. One month I stressed over ever dip and rise hoping I was Oing, and I didn't O till cd18 and I usually have a 23-27 day cycle so you know I was a mess!!!!! needless to say, I had a 30 day cycle that month! That was the only time I O'd that late. Keep taking opk's you'll get a +, and make sure you hold your PP 3-4 hours. Good Luck!

[inlove96]

Thanks. I appreciate it. I will try to hold it til 7 or later tonight. Thanks.